102 days and counting

[Gweasel]

Today I was going for a release after 102 days but, having picked a black marble (1 white, 2 black) I remain caged. My kh has decided I can try again at 105 days. What she's wondering is how long is the longest anyone has gone. I fear she wants me to try for 365 days! Any thoughts?

[LockedUpNewb]

Nice fantasy. Not very realistic for most couples. Just my opinion. YMMV

[Atone]

Nice fantasy. Not very realistic for most couples. Just my opinion. YMMV

What part?

I know I have gone well over 105 days and there are others here who have gone much longer than that. I would have to look my longest up to be sure but it was about 6 months I think.

ETA - not trying to be boastful, that was my longest, the average is about 45 days.

-A

[LockedUpNewb]

I just don't see it as a 'realistic' expectation for most couples. Maybe thats me being naive? Willing to admit that.

I know that I personally fantasize about being locked up for months and months - but thats just fantasy and my wife has absolutely ZERO interest in keeping me locked up that long without a release. She said that she is willing to try and keep me locked up for that long, but she insists I orgasm at least every couple weeks - then right back into the cage. She refuses to lock me up and deny an orgasm for than 60 days. She said that she likes my cock too much to give it up for that long. And she knows that releasing me from the cage and asking me to have sex with her and NOT cum is really asking too much of a man who has already been locked up and teased mercilessly for weeks and weeks.

I do think some guys boast about how long they've been locked. I don't get it. Seams like they consider it a badge of honor to have been caged for so long. To me - thats friggin' NUTS. I like the chastity play. I like to serve my wife and service her. I like to take care of things around the house so that she is free to study for school or simply relax. I like it when she orders me around. But I also like to cum and she's not cruel enough to take that away from me for so long. I behave and I serve her and she lets me out for a romp now and then. The point is she is in control of the orgasms. There's no gold plated lapel pins for 'distance' in our relationship. As long as I am a good guy and she is satisfied - she's reasonable and lets me out for fun. Neither of us see the point in long term total denial. Sometimes she pushes my limits and makes me wait weeks for the release. Sometimes she'll make me wait a couple weeks and then she'll spend 3 or 4 nights in a row driving me wild with T & D - and on the 5th or 6th night I get to explode. She likes to screw with my head and my weenie. But she's just not interested in taking the orgasm away from me for such an extended period of time. Thank god!! I'm not interested in that either. I fantasize about it - but in reality some fantasies are best left as fantasies.

[Gweasel]

"I do think some guys boast about how long they've been locked."
It wasn't a boast, it was a fact.

"...my wife has absolutely ZERO interest in keeping me locked up that long without a release"
My kh is NOT my wife. Our relationship is clearly not the same as yours.


I only asked the question for an insight into other people's experiences. Thank you, Atone. My apologies to anyone who thought otherwise.

[Atone]

I just don't see it as a 'realistic' expectation for most couples. Maybe thats me being naive? Willing to admit that.

That is why it is nice that every couple gets to experience chastity in their own way. See my sig, this is not a one size fits all activity (in more ways than one).

I do think some guys boast about how long they've been locked. I don't get it. Seams like they consider it a badge of honor to have been caged for so long.

That is why I made the claim that I was not boasting. This is just how my wife and I like to experience chastity. It works for us. I shared it because it was relevant, not to try to set some standard.

But I also like to cum and she's not cruel enough to take that away from me for so long.

My wife is not being cruel by "taking away" my orgasm, rather she is being loving in doing exactly what I want (and asked her to do). I actually don't see it as a taking away at all. Nothing is missed, there is no void anywhere.

The point is she is in control of the orgasms.

Exactly.

Neither of us see the point in long term total denial.
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But she's just not interested in taking the orgasm away from me for such an extended period of time. Thank god!! I'm not interested in that either.

again, I refer to my sig. It really is a great thing.

I fantasize about it - but in reality some fantasies are best left as fantasies.

That is your reality and it truly is probably best for you. My reality is very different and I believe that it is truly best for me.

-A

[jnuts]

My wife isn't cruel enough to make me fuck her without cumming after being locked up either. She is awesome enough to let me fuck her and get enough pleasure to keep me in a constant state of arousal for weeks. Long time lockup isn't for us either right now. Maybe someday.