Just so weird

[mikel2411]

This is so odd, I have been realizing even without my KH interaction, at this time, I feel I NEED to be caged, so I continue adding and changing things finding I really enjoying making sure I can always tell I'm caged especially during morning erections. Now I really enjoy feeling the cage restricting me in the mornings even when it becomes painful, changing cages and things locked under them to make sure it continues to remind me I'm caged. When I started I immediately felt I was more focused on things I needed to be, I had explained it to myself as my minds attempt to ignore I was locked up. But now I believe it's because of the cage-it seems to make me calmer and now when I am uncaged I start wanting to put it back on with in minutes and actually get anxious when I am not wearing one.
So I agree it is weird and exciting, strange and some times terrible but I can't seem to stop.

Mikel

[KHEmmi]

I wonder what percentage of people into chastity have ADHD or similar disorders?

Asperger's, Autism, ADHD, Dyspraxia...
I suspect that there are many many people (not necessarily in chastity) who have these things but have never been diagnosed so don't know they have it.

Interesting topic.

[Mr Pickle]

Her pleasure and the pleasure of our keyholders is why we do it. .

Oh? I thought I was doing because its kinky and hot and quite naughty. That and because it gives me one less thing to worry about?

So you're saying our keyholders get pleasure from it locked.

Considering I could be the same guy not locked, and I gotta ask.

Why?

[denied_one]

Her pleasure and the pleasure of our keyholders is why we do it. .

Oh? I thought I was doing because its kinky and hot and quite naughty. That and because it gives me one less thing to worry about?

So you're saying our keyholders get pleasure from it locked.

Considering I could be the same guy not locked, and I gotta ask.

Why?

.... *Waits*

[Tongue+groove]

. Considering I could be the same guy not locked, and I gotta ask.

Why?

I’m sure there is sarcasm in this statement. But just in case there’s not then may I reference you back to the first pages of your journey.

Yes each of us could be who and what we want to be by just deciding to be. But isn’t this a better way to be a better man, with your keyholder deeply involved. Rather in charge of you becoming a better man.

[Mr Pickle]

True. But at what point are you betterer enough to say "Ta da! I did it, I am betterer.. enough.. now can you let me out"?

Hypothetically that is. Because it is my belief and hope that keyholders do get a lot LOT more out of this than just locking his crown jewels away?

I think betterer is a word. As in better than better?

[denied_one]

Yes each of us could be who and what we want to be by just deciding to be. But isn’t this a better way to be a better man, with your keyholder deeply involved. Rather in charge of you becoming a better man.

Wow! This is such a great way to explain this whole thing.

[denied_one]

True. But at what point are you betterer enough to say "Ta da! I did it, I am betterer.. enough.. now can you let me out"?

Hypothetically that is. Because it is my belief and hope that keyholder do get a lot LOT more out of this than just locking his crown jewels away?

Very good question. I have defeated masturbation and even temptation to masturbate with the help of the cage.

My Wife says I absolutely do not need a cage at all to accomplish what we "need to". Which is no masturbation and controlled orgasms.

BUT....what She is absolutely keen on is ERECTION CONTROL. That is what She gets out of having me caged besides the obvious cool aesthetics of the whole thing. The cage is needed for that. Thankfully?

[Tongue+groove]

@mr. Pickle

I think betterer is a word. As in better than better?

Believe it or not around this house we use the phrase(s):

“More better” and “more betterer” All the time.

so yes I will agree with your line of thinking and grammar. Although I’m sure the elite kh’s with their fine reasoning and reading skills will disagree.

One of those times I’m glad Mrs. G isn’t on here.

[Tongue+groove]

. I have defeated masturbation and even temptation to masturbate with the help of the cage.

My Wife says I absolutely do not need a cage at all to accomplish what we "need to". Which is no masturbation and controlled orgasms.

Not to discredit the primary purpose of your post being erection control. Which by the way is a great way to look at things.

But I have to seriously wonder how many on here could truly after an extended time with out orgasm, be unlocked, and the kh travel overseas for two weeks without communication and avoid a relaxing wank.

No discredit intended but can masturbation really be defeated. If you have then hats off to you!

Like I said no disrespect intended.