[Planetary] Hopefully we get somewhere this time...

[Mr Pickle]

Is this something normal?
Will a ruined orgasm help keep me at my New Normal and stop me going back to my old self?

Framed as a question so I hope you don't mind.

Yes and yes. Edging, or ruined orgasms dont cause that drop.

The other alternative is. If you don't come at all for a few weeks, you can't orgasm all your 'good' hormones out in a single go. You don't get the drop, but you will definitely feel that coming once was not enough.

[Tongue+groove]

. Yes and yes. Edging, or ruined orgasms dont cause that drop.

The other alternative is. If you don't come at all for a few weeks, you can't orgasm all your 'good' hormones out in a single go. You don't get the drop, but you will definitely feel that coming once was not enough.

I wholeheartedly agree with Mr. Pickle on the matter. I will also add that a proper edging for me is really difficult to lock up after. It also leaves me really horny for the next 24 hours or so. It’s a long last high of sorts.

My kh has discovered that ruined o’s seem to be the best for me ( her opinion). I won’t disagree for the most part, once you get over the frustration. Her litmus test for a proper ruin is my willingness to cleanup by feeding. And they are not a common occurrence either which makes achieving them easier. Also I never know when they will happen until the moment of occurrence, that’s where the head game happens.

Also keep in mind that for some a reset is needed on occasion as you build up your lockup length of time stamina.

And my final thought is to remember your kh’s position. She probably enjoys giving you orgasms as much as you do her. This is an adjustment for her too. It may take some time for her to understand your perspective. So have fun with it together and don’t rush the adventure.

[Planetary]

So, interesting update.

This morning I asked to go down on my wife and she agreed because she'd just had a shower, normal she doesn't want me to.

She came with a nice orgasm and then we had some PIV sex, with me on top, before swapping to her on top.

I was close to coming myself so we stopped.
I asked her to play with me for a bit "Are you sure you won't come?"
We stopped when I was close, and she just held my penis tightly.
I definitely felt something like an organism, full body twitching, but didn't ejaculate.
It felt so good.

[Tongue+groove]

I definitely felt something like an organism, full body twitching, but didn't ejaculate.
It felt so good.

Congratulations!

First time it happened to me I didn’t know what to think. It gets better with time. Mrs. Groove has figured out how to give me, what I call girly o’s, pretty efficiently. She seems to think I’m better off with girly o’s since I don’t ejaculate. She says I get to keep my energy, and feel both horny and satisfied at the same time.

One warning, when you start to have multiples, hang on. It’s like riding a wave.

[Planetary]

A couple of interesting updates.

Last Friday I was sitting on my phone doom scrolling through garbage on the internet when my wife said: " If I catch you on that phone again I'm going to add a day!"

I felt a distinct mix of fear and arousal, this is the first real use of teasing around denial in everyday life, and it made me sit up and listen.
I put my phone down, and it stayed down.

I gave my wife some feedback later, and told her how I felt and the impact that statement had on me, it was very effective in modifying my behaviour.
This is another example of more effective communication from me, so I think this this shows things are working as intended.

Sunday 8th December and we had PIV, and was allowed to cum, 1st time this month and 3rd time since we started last month....