My wife is bi and I am heteroflexable. I identify as straight, do not find men sexually attractive or feel repulsed by man on man sex. This has allowed me in the distant past to have sex with a man. In fact, I lost my virginity to a male friend when I was 13. Then to another.
If the circumstances were right. Women there to arouse me and a few drinks and some weed, I could be persuaded to do things to another guy if the ladies asked me to.
Up until 12 years ago we were poly and shared a girlfriend for most of our 48 years of marriage. We got into chastity because without our girlfriend in bed with us, my wife did not enjoy sex since I cannot have intercourse with her for various reasons since 15 years ago, I was her foreplay and our girlfriend finished her off. Without a girl in bed my wife seldom wanted sex with me or any other man for that matter having tried it once and hating it. Chastity solved our problem because my long periods of sexual frustration are now a fetish and my wife feels comfortable orgasming on her vibrator without having to deal with sex with a man. She does enjoy kissing me though but with her eyes shut I think she fantasizes about me being her girlfriend. Do not know and do not care. I enjoy the pent up sexual energy more than the few seconds of an orgasm. It works for us. Nothing better than having a Keyholders who does not want you to orgasm.
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Gay in chastity for nearly a year now. Owned by a daddy 20 years older than me.
Only allowed out for cleaning. For a gay bottom chastity is very different than a heterosexual man.
Only allowed out for cleaning. For a gay bottom chastity is very different than a heterosexual man.
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How so?Gaylockedboy wrote: ↑Sat Aug 21, 2021 4:48 am For a gay bottom chastity is very different than a heterosexual man.
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Do... do you guys get some extra bit of equipment that we don't know about?For a gay bottom chastity is very different than a heterosexual man.
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Schnoff - Would you like to weigh in on this subject?
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Current Devices: MM Jail Bird, Cobra, MM Watchful Mistress, Holy Trainer v3, a new Curve & the dreaded Spiked Chamber.
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Using the compass on my phone I am currently oriented due south. That’s subject to change.
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I can only speak for myself but the phycology is very different and the way it’s used is for very different reasons.
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My orientation is usual North North West but I have been known to back to North West when the wind is in the East.
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After a year post covid of “freedom” I am trialing a good old HT V3 nub modified by me to have a glans ring so no pullout. Working well so far.
After a year post covid of “freedom” I am trialing a good old HT V3 nub modified by me to have a glans ring so no pullout. Working well so far.
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We're all here to learn. Care to let us know what's different?I can only speak for myself but the phycology is very different and the way it’s used is for very different reasons.
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