Hello to all, a newbie here. Me and my partner live seperetly and with the lockdown in place we started texting a lot, one night I just decided to tell her my desires about chastity, to my amazement she was fine with it and happy that I had told her. She is more submissive normally but was happy for us to swap and change. With in drunken late night text I ended up telling her a lot of my thoughts and fantasies and she didn't seem fazed at all. So very happy. I could tell her excitement grew when I mentioned about her wearing the key on her necklace.
I ordered my Torment Stainless Steel Spiral Chastity Cage from bondora and waited as time slowed down. Finally it arrived and I was very eager to try it on. I had 3 sessions with it on whilst I had the keys, the longest being 17 hours, only stopping and was aching a fair bit but also a clostriphobic sensation washed over me with it being metal and harder to remove if something went wrong.
Anyway, her Birthday is today so we agreed that we would see each other yesterday for a short time and then back into self quarentine. I locked myself up and sent her a video to prove it knowing that now she has all 3 keys and is 10 miles away. The next 6 hours passed as my first stint of being locked with no key in the house started. Finally she arrived and we spent some time in the garden, her hand on my lap slightly touching the cage, my heart was pounding. I served her drinks and cooked lunch for her etc.
Finally she took me to the bedroom were she teased me a lot etc but couldn't do much more as it was that time of a ladies month. However I was so happy that I got to give her the birthday present I bought her and as she sat on the bed I lay on the floor naked, with one high heeled foot on my face and the other on my cage.
Before our time was over she did release me and allowed me to have pleasure as I'm still very nervous about going longer without the key. Today my larger base ring arrived in post so will get to try it out and hopefully feel a little less anxiety knowing the ring is a larger size.
Thanks for reading my first experience and sorry if this was not right to post.
Living the real life under lock and key
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Sounds like you two are off to a good start. It is a good idea to keep an emergency key with you in the beginning in case you need to unlock for severe discomfort or other issues. It really does take the body a while to get used to being locked in a device and if you have bouts of discomfort, it is often better to remove your device for a day or so rather than getting an abrasion or a raw spot that could take days to heal. Once you become accustomed to wearing, I would suggest you reach an agreement with your Keyholder to still allow you to keep a key stored in a way that it would be evident if it was tampered with. Of course, you would call and get her permission in such a situation. My spouse keeps one key on her person and the other key in a tamper evident envelope that stays with me wherever I am. Also, if you can talk your Keyholder into joining this forum, there is a wealth of knowledge on the subject here and a hidden forum just for Keyholders where she can communicate with other Keyholders. Plus. the Keyholder perspectives on the open forum are so refreshing and appreciated. Welcome and Good luck on your journey.
Current Device: DhGate A271
Current Device: DhGate A271
Thanks very much, I sent her all 3 keys with the agreement that she brings 2 back, one for herself and one to hide at mine for emergencies. I told her about me posting here only half hour ago and that u have a KH forum. She seems happy so hopefully she may join soon.