Icy hot handjob....ouch!

[danj]

Glad my wife isn't into making me hurt like that! I would hate that type of pain.

[TwistedMister]

Glad my wife isn't into making me hurt like that! I would hate that type of pain.

I, on the other hand, am intrigued and aroused by the idea of 'punishment' focused on cock and balls (while other forms of pain play such as ass spanking generate little interest) and the pleasure/pain dynamic- the uncertainty of whether something will be pleasurable or painful, or both, the idea of pain (or other penalties) being required as a price to be paid for enjoying pleasure, and genital-oriented punishment (CBT) as penalty for 'breaking the rules' or other undesired behavior, as well as being used to compel participation in immediate activities (to which one might be ordinarily resistant).

I like brad's game idea. I like to gamble and my masochistic nature has often led me to taking risks that could result in unpleasant consequences...in fact, that has been somewhat of a theme of my life in employment and hobbies, and my general nature (something that I didn't recognize/understand until later in life, after becoming educated in Psychology and reflection on my own behavior and tendencies).