Multiple devices, edema problems in all

[locked4her55]

Sorry for your continued problems with enjoying chastity play.

Hope it all works out for you and yes, keep us posted

[danman]

Thank you.

I understand that a new member to this board has to earn trust, especially if he asks advice about surgery that few will consider to solve chastity problems. The truth is, we both enjoy this and all options have failed. It might be perceived as a scar to the body, for me it might be the start of a new era in which 40+ yo people have found the joy of sex again.

[TwistedMister]

I think that uncut looks ugly, and it seems to me that it would be somewhat inconvenient too. I've had occasion to discuss it with some women (not a great many) and they feel that snipped is more attractive. I'm glad my parents made the decision, and that it was done when I was too young to remember it.

[danman]

Quick update. The surgery has been postponed because complications arose (infection near the glans and tissue that does not look well) according to the surgeon. To make a long story short: a more complicated operation is needed with a 12-18 week recovery time.

The positive part of this is that I didn't recognise how bad the infection was. The truth is that I'm very sad. We both enjoyed chastity, it sparked our love life again, and now I'm facing 3-4 months recovery time. I'm afraid that my wife's interest will be gone (again) when I'm fully recovered.

[danman]

Update: think before you act. It has been a month and finally I'm past the stage that I'm scared any bleeding will occur. I have had intercourse with my wife, but wow, to both of us it was more scary than fun. I have spent one night in the HT2, but the truth is, it will take at least a month before we are back in the game.

I think what I did was right - the trial night was okay without edemas, but this is a major surgery for an adult.