Ladies: 5 Huge Advantages of Male Chastity

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wishful4
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Ladies: 5 Huge Advantages of Male Chastity

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1. It stops your man from wasting his time and libido masturbating. If you are in a relationship, his focus should be on you. The best reason for male chastity is to make sure he stays completely focused on you and not fantasizing about other women, porn, or self-pleasuring himself. All of his sexual energy should be directed at you.

2. It's counter-intuitive, but once he is locked, your sex life will improve because he’ll have to please you in order to get his release. With your help and direction, he’ll become more attuned to what gives you pleasure, thus becoming a better lover. You could have more orgasms and more massages per week than you’ve ever had before.

3. Your relationship may become stronger. Male chastity encourages open and honest communication about each others needs. This is an incredible benefit for any couple, and forced denial can help any couple improve their natural bonding not to mention making him more attentive, passionate, and caring.

4. The romance may improve in your relationship. As long as he knows he can self-pleasure any time he wants, there’s no reason for him to romance you. That’s why the romance stopped after awhile. By stopping his masturbation and limiting his sexual access to you, you’ll train him to be the romantic lover he was when you were still dating.

5. Your friends will compliment you on what a wonderful, attentive husband/boyfriend you have. They will be envy your strong, committed relationship. No man is as ideal as one constantly locked and denied.

Now that you know what Male Chastity can do for you, a disclaimer is appropriate. It will not fix a toxic relationship; it only has the potential make a good relationship much, much better. It requires a consensual effort coupled with love and trust, but the destination is well worth the journey.
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Re: Ladies: 5 Huge Advantages of Male Chastity

Post by Linus »

Good post!
There are many more benefits mentioned in various blogs & sites
However this post is the summery!
Stay chaste. Make your wife & life happy. Forever.
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Re: Ladies: 5 Huge Advantages of Male Chastity

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Maybe at the beginning and maybe because we read this stuff and felt that this is how we should behave. It is hard to say because I was always very attentive, romantic and the husband my wife's friends were envious of. I have given my wife everything she wanted both materially and emotionally. In fact, chastity caused a problem over the course of the first year. My wife said that I was smothering her with too much attention and affection. I had to back off on all the above mentioned benefits.

We also learned that the longer I was denied and locked up, the less interest I had in sex. My orgams after weeks of denial were not as good as the ones I had days apart. My urethra hurt/burned from the strong and my semen was so thick that it did not shoot out like my wife liked it too. After 20 months we are taking a three month break. We will resume again at the end of September but it will just be 4 denial periods of about 4-6 weeks and then a break from Valentine's day to end of September again.

Chastity has had benefits for us but other than the Masturbation part, the rest were different than the ones listed above. Many fetishes have supposed benefits and list of how you are supposed to feel. Cuckolding, D/s, FLR, etc.. Having dabbled in all we found that it does not go by the book most of the time. We always started off doing what we were supposed to be doing but in the end we did it our way and the benefits were unique to our situation.
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Re: Ladies: 5 Huge Advantages of Male Chastity

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Wifey does say that from her perspectice our sex life has improved vastly since we embarked upon this journey. she has become much more confident in her own sexuality and tkaes great delight in activities that turn her on, not least in dressing very provacatively when we go out and pushing me to the edge then denying any further action.

We currently have a male friend (of both of us for many years) staying here on holiday. She flashes him in my presence pretty much evey day - yesterday she was in the garden feeding our hens, dressed in an apron and shoes; she told me to call him out and when he came outside, she pulled her tits out to either side of it, giving him (and me) a great show. I'm not sure if she's fucking him, but I give them as much time together as possible in the hope! If I get to know, I'll post!

Ladies, it's a great activity for both parties. Please lock your man.