After almost 2 years of 24/7 locked up, I am no longer excited to be locked up any more. Tired of sitting down to pee and the clean up process afterwards. I had an orgasm a few days ago after 2 months of denial and my wife said I could enjoy a few days of having a free willy. I think she is tired of chastity too because she was into the teasing and denial part and has learned that it is just as good after a week of denial as any other time. Better perhaps since I tend to get less interested in sex after a few weeks.
We have also discovered that my orgasms are more intense if they occur closer together; again due to a lessening of sexual interest. If I have to wait long for an orgasm, my urethra burns from what I gather is old sperm, or so I read. Whatever the reason, my orgasms are better a week or two apart than months apart. So here I am u locked and my wife not bugging me to lock up and me not desiring too.
Is it time for a chastity break. Do any of you experience this after a long time at chastity?
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Not sure if you can compare one person's experience to another. Seems everyone is a little different. Nothing wrong with taking a break though. We have done it several times over the 5+ years we have been dabbling with MC. One time for almost a year due to my wife's medical issues. I think a lot of it has to do with what each person finds they like about MC. It has only been in the last 2 years that my KH/Spouse has gotten past not feeling guilty leaving me locked and denied for longer periods. She has now found that she really enjoys the denial aspect of MC and she also enjoys teasing.
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Re: Chastity Break
I think that's healthy. I am not on "streaks" most of the time or locked up (rarely) most of the time. But my gf will initiate Chastity play usually after a really good sex session where she's has about 5 orgasms to my one and it reminds her of the marathon sessions we have when I'm denied. This is day 2 of a new "streak" but before this I was free for a long time.
Enjoy it and you may find after a few months or even years you miss it and come back to it. Good luck and do what is enjoyable because that's the whole purpose of any kind of play.
Enjoy it and you may find after a few months or even years you miss it and come back to it. Good luck and do what is enjoyable because that's the whole purpose of any kind of play.
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I'm on a break for medical reasons. My doctor told me that I should masturbate more often. No seriously. He said, "Tom, you could have a stroke at any time now."
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That's a good one. (I hope the "seriously" part was said in jest; If he really did say that ... not funny at allTom Allen wrote:I'm on a break for medical reasons. My doctor told me that I should masturbate more often. No seriously. He said, "Tom, you could have a stroke at any time now."

Reminds me of the time I was at the doctor's office, and after a quick look at my test results, and then at me, she said "Oh dear. I'm afraid you'll have to stop masturbating....". I asked "But why?" to which she replied "Because I can't examine you while you're moving like that".
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[...] "Because you're using my hand!"
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Can't you see it, a new medical campaign:Tom Allen wrote:My doctor told me that I should masturbate more often. No seriously. He said, "Tom, you could have a stroke at any time now."
Stroke to prevent a Stroke.

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Re: Chastity Break
Break time is over. Last night my wife told me to lock up again. This time we are not going to stretch my limits or go for a new personal best. My wife has cut out the bra and panty wearing for me and will allow me to go out unlocked if the situation warrants it. We are basically going to keep it loose and flexible. Our focus is once again back on teasing and denial and not the device. When I first got my Jailbird I wanted to wear it all the time but the shine is off the penny now and I will not masturbate, locked or not. So wearing it outside the house is no longer mandatory unless we are just visiting friends or going to the movies. Stuff like that. It is an ever evolving thing with us.
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I was allowed a night "OUT" and woke up to pleasure (PIV) my KH, whereafter she insisted I go back in chastity. I felt grateful for the short time of freedom and enjoyed my full morning erection- BUT KH was very clear NO TOUCHING, so hands stayed above the sheets.
Chastity in our house and outside is mandatory 24/7, but a short break was delightful albeit happy that she insisted on chastity again ...
Chastity in our house and outside is mandatory 24/7, but a short break was delightful albeit happy that she insisted on chastity again ...