Greetings! My name is tqbartleby but you c-an call me T.
I'm a man in my mid-50's, American, long-term resident of Europe. My wife and I have been married for decades now and over the years gradually opened up to our kinkier side. We both work, in positions of some seniority, but she has a much more high-powered career than I do. I've been a submissive husband, officially, for a couple of years now (before that I spent a long time as a "stealth sub"--in my mind but not explicit).
We practice orgasm control--that is to say, I only come when she says I can, and she comes whenever she wants (which is pretty often, thanks to my eager efforts). We've been operating by trust, but I must admit that when she's out of town, I sometimes cheat. (I don't tell her that because she'll get out her riding crop.) Once every week or ten days, she allows me to come, and more often than not will simply tell me, after I've taken care of her, to take care of myself, and then she leaves the room.
Last night I asked her not to let me take care of myself--if she doesn't have the time or inclination, I'd rather wait, so that each orgasm is hers to give me directly. She agreed to that. And I asked her if she would let me acquire a male chastity device and be my keyholder. She said yes!
I'm very excited. Now I have some research to do, and this forum will, I'm sure, be a fount of information. Looking forward to it!
"Hello world" thread
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Welcome, from another newbie. Whole world of fun to be had here!
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Hi everyone, I'm another newbie too
I'm 26, and I live in western europe.
I'm now locked on a CB-6000 and I was seeking for people who practise chastity too - this is how I found you ! I read some posts and this community seems really interesting, so I decided to sign up !
Looking forward to more
I'm 26, and I live in western europe.
I'm now locked on a CB-6000 and I was seeking for people who practise chastity too - this is how I found you ! I read some posts and this community seems really interesting, so I decided to sign up !
Looking forward to more

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Hi Everyone. I've been a lurker for quite a while. I've been trying various devices from China, none of them seem to work well for me. I either get pinched or the boys slip out. I ordered a HT2 this weekend. Once I have it I'm going to talk to my wife about it and the wife to lock me up. Not sure how she will react to the idea. I've always been the more kinky one of the two (married 38 years). I will take it slow. Any advice from those with experience I'm open to your insights.
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Hi everyone,
I'm a guy in the mid 40s from europe, married more than 20 years already. In the past 2-3 years my interest in being kept in chastity has been growing and I've been mentioning this to my wife carefully. We've been playing with cheap CB-copies for some time. About a year ago my wife agreed to get something more serious and so we ordered the Looker 02, but most of the time it was my own initiative to put it on (and most of the time I had access to a key or she would give it to me easily). About 2 1/2 weeks ago though, she told me to put it on and took both keys. Being locked for weeks (maybe months) is definately becoming real.
I'm a guy in the mid 40s from europe, married more than 20 years already. In the past 2-3 years my interest in being kept in chastity has been growing and I've been mentioning this to my wife carefully. We've been playing with cheap CB-copies for some time. About a year ago my wife agreed to get something more serious and so we ordered the Looker 02, but most of the time it was my own initiative to put it on (and most of the time I had access to a key or she would give it to me easily). About 2 1/2 weeks ago though, she told me to put it on and took both keys. Being locked for weeks (maybe months) is definately becoming real.
Happily locked by my wife in a Looker 02 with just 48mm total length => it still went in like "nothing" 

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Welcome to all of our newest members.
Upper right hand corner. Do a search [baby steps] . . . .and lots of communicating.subhub wrote: Any advice from those with experience I'm open to your insights.
Happily secured since 4/2010 
Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
DHgate A271 & 273, DHgate Full Stainless Steel Belt & DHgate HT nub
Currently wearing A273

Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
DHgate A271 & 273, DHgate Full Stainless Steel Belt & DHgate HT nub
Currently wearing A273
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Hey, uhh... New guy here, new to chastity even. Don't know quite how active I'll be as I'm still just getting into the game and my first chastity device was so far a let-down. (CB-3000 or 6000 I think? in any case I felt like I was crammed in there a little too tightly (like I could feel pressure on my urethra when I peed) and despite that, I could still easily slip out the back of the cage. The cage even split slightly at the base of it, and occasionally pinches me. 
I ordered a new one, which is a little more open on the sides so I won't have the same problem with girth. I have some self control so I won't back out of this one if I'm ordered not to. I just hope it's more comfortable that my first

I ordered a new one, which is a little more open on the sides so I won't have the same problem with girth. I have some self control so I won't back out of this one if I'm ordered not to. I just hope it's more comfortable that my first
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thanks for being "here" 

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Hello everyone,
I'm the keyholder of Look02 who became a member just a few days ago. He told me about the keyholders subforum and I would like to participate to get in contact with other women keeping their men chaste.
I'm the keyholder of Look02 who became a member just a few days ago. He told me about the keyholders subforum and I would like to participate to get in contact with other women keeping their men chaste.
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Welcome to the forum!Princess wrote:Hello everyone,
I'm the keyholder of Look02 who became a member just a few days ago. He told me about the keyholders subforum and I would like to participate to get in contact with other women keeping their men chaste.