Ruined Orgasms

[wishful4]

Usually, I don't buy into the ruined orgasm thing. That's just been my experience. A spurt is a spurt, some more spectacular than others but the aftermath seems much the same. Maybe I'm just thinking about them more these days since I've been locked since the last week of March. Anyway, this short clip comes close to what I would think is a legit ruined orgasm. She seemed to know exactly what she was doing. Impressive!
http://lockedbygf.tumblr.com/post/119842265365

[peter_rabbit]

I hear you. I do think there's a difference between a "spurt" and a "pouring out". Last January, I had only 4 ruined orgasms... each one was different. But I knew the difference once I had a full one. It's hard to classify! I'd like a rigorous vernacular and classification... but we'd need some test subjects and lab coats...

The video you linked to is very good! There's a lot of good ruined orgasm stuff out there. Some are hands free orgasms, and others look intensely frustrating.

For me, when I just pour out rather than clench and twitch, it is truly ruined.

[Michele]

I have instructed my subby's wife to give him a ruined O every night through June... This ought to be fun!

He will have fluid come out but absolutely no pleasure from it at all.

[nickishers]

Anytime I've ever tried ruined or hands free I still get muscle spasms and some pleasure. Its frustrating to not stroke, but it feels good. Not as good as stroking though. I'd like to experience the buildup and have it the pleasure just stop and leak out without feeling an orgasm.

[TwistedMister]

...we'd need some test subjects and lab coats...

Ooooooooohhhhh! Me! Me! Pick me! Pick me! (Will that cute lady in your avatar be delivering them while she wears the white lab coat?)

I have instructed my subby's wife to give him a ruined O every night through June... This ought to be fun!

*Every* night? For over a month? I'm having a hard time imagining what that would be like.

[wishful4]

That's kinda the crux of the matter. I really think no one could give me a RO except ME. If my spouse said; okay, I going to ruin your orgasm, I would have to tell her when to stop. Am I gonna do that? Hell no! I may start out with the intent to do it, but when I'm just about to the point of no return, the automatic pilot takes over. The big head hands over control to the little head.

[locked4her55]

I absolutely agree with you wishful4. Taking nothing from my very talented and loving wife but it takes a special knack to achieve what the woman in your tumblr video accomplished without any prompting.

[EdgeToEternity]

If you really want to experience a ruined orgasm you may need to practice on yourself. For me, an abandoned orgasm is frustrating, but still overall pleasurable and still diminishes SOME of my arousal, but not all of it.

To achieve a "fully" ruined orgasm I used a different method than just edging, then stroking a few quick times and abandoning. What I do is 1)I get very close to the edge. 2) I try my absolute hardest to STOP Flexing my PC muscle. (the muscle that when you tense it, your hard cock should bounce up and down) 3) I use a light-as-a-feather touch with maybe 1-2 fingers, just under the head of my cock. 4) I keep myself on the edge with that feather touch as long as I can (because it's a personal funishment) and then 5) I increase pressure/intensity just barely to tip me over the edge. 6) Take your hands away, and Still don't tense your PC muscle.

The end result is usually the cum dribbles out, but it feels almost exactly like I edge and then stopped. Thats right, Edge then stop completely, THAT'S what a ruined orgasm Should feel like. My arousal diminishes somewhat, but my body is so confused that If I try and edge shortly afterwards, my cock won't even go soft after the RO.

I imagine it's extremely difficult for a partner to be able to achieve the exact same results, I've never tried. But given the nature of how delicate the edging part is, I'd say you'd lose your edge more times than not, or you'd force a PC muscle flex to keep on the edge, tip over and cum (with involuntary convulsing PC muscle like a normal orgasm, Once that starts its very difficult to stop).

Hope this helps some of you! Also hope it wasn't too long-winded, but it's a hard process to describe and have you able to reproduce the same results.

[greecemonkey]

Since wifey saw the vid, she's been practising on me several times a day, getting very close then stopping short. Very frustrating but better than the blue pills for keeping the interest up

I think she's getting more practice than I realise.

[locked4her55]

a personal funishment

Love it

Great description. If I ever get out (unsupervised) I'll give it a try.