@ one year and beyond, is it different?

[Serviceman]

The CM feeling after four months is probably one of the best on-going feelings/sensations I have every had, but what is it like beyond, say at one year or later? Does it change much?

[Len51]

We are working towards that. I just finished a 3 month stretch and started a 4-5 month no orgasm period. My wife keeps telling me that she hates how I get after my orgasm and I keep telling her that she is the one who makes me cum when I am fine with going a year. Problem is that she loves me too much to deny me too long but she is getting used to it more and more. The idea is for me to cum mid summer and then again for either xmas or New Years Eve and then try for a full year. We have the same safe word we used during our BDSM days so I if I really need to cum, I can always use it. We do not do chastity to punish or reward me. We just do it because my wife like me better when I am chaste and so do I. It is a joint venture where we both work towards keeping me chaste.

[slave d]

FWIW, a year put has seen a massive difference for MsM and i. MsM has now taken to being dominant and controlling and i have finally reached the point where orgasm is finally far less important than arousal AND i know that my best chance for arousal is to carry pit the tasks that MsM sets me in order that She feels good enough about me that She "wants" to keep me on edge so i do the tasks She sets !! Add to that the fact that our personal communication is now totally honest and it's a win win !!! The longer W/we work with chastity the better it gets !!

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[Tame Lion]

No magic there. I have been locked for more than a year. The big change is that chastity is part of our life. We have included it in the way we live. We are past the fantasies and Mrs. Lion keeps experimenting with how we play.

[grubber]

The physical feelings and sensations settle down over time for me, however at times the arousal gets incredibly intense. Far stronger than in the beginning. I sometimes get so horny that I can't seem to sit still and I get edgy and fidgety and have a hard time concentrating on anything else.

The feelings that have changed the most and never seem to stop growing are the feelings for my wife. She just gets more and more amazing the longer we keep living this lifestyle.

[MrCage]

[/quote]The feelings that have changed the most and never seem to stop growing are the feelings for my wife. She just gets more and more amazing the longer we keep living this lifestyle.[/quote]

Ditto for me

[tj246]

No magic there. I have been locked for more than a year. The big change is that chastity is part of our life. We have included it in the way we live. We are past the fantasies and Mrs. Lion keeps experimenting with how we play.

yes that is how it is here wtih me an my wife over year an i dont even know i am wearing it most of the time sit to pee is normal for me i dont even know its on i put my panties on in morning put my pants on socks shoes an off to work never pay mind that its there
only time is summer pool some times forget someone over and start t oget out of pool naked

[Caged55]

Changing of the power dynamic and female dominance...?!

Mistress and I have been toying and "playing" getting into the Femdom lifestyle for a while, and slipping in and out of it as life's stresses take theuir toll. Then I ordered a MM Jailbird as the CB devices where just too uncomfortable... when the JB arrived, I tried it on and showed my Mistress, and commented how comfortable it was...she loved it, and subsequently took the screw key, tightened the locking screw hard, and took both keys!! That started my first week in 24/7 chastity, she let me out for a special event and once for her own pleasure... now after my first month I am noticing how she is becoming more and more dominant, literally her confidence that this is working, and from being a hesitant Mistress, she is becoming overtly dominant... where she used her strap-on maybe once a month, its become 2-3 per week....
She even made me order another MM device, the Queens Keep, as my winter cage, and the jailbird is used for summer, and the old CB3000 only for airtravel...

My question to the forum... have you seen a change in your female's dominance and confidence the longer you stayed in chastity? I mean this is what we wanted, but the total change in her towards taking control seems directly linked to her control over my caged penis, with her now making sure I understand that SHE CANNOT GO BACK TO A VANILLA MARRIAGE.

[Aarkey]

My question to the forum... have you seen a change in your female's dominance and confidence the longer you stayed in chastity?

Caged55, first - kudos on moving from the fantasy to the reality. Second, you might want to start a new topic thread with that question, since your inquiry is a bit of a sidetrack from the original topic. Lastly, there are many here who have reported exactly what you're asking. Some found it to be an awesome experience, others found it an enormous challenge to their relationship, and others have found their relationships end as the mutual interests/needs of the partners evolved from the experience. So... it can definitely happen. And the effect varies to extremes. From exciting beyond their wildest dreams, to "be careful what you wish for."

[Aarkey]

I'm curious. For those who have gone many months (or over a year) how long did you explore chastity, and how old are you?

I'm 45 now, and I started in chastity about 11 years ago. Originally I couldn't go longer than a week. And the idea of going for weeks or months seemed insane. Then, about 5 years ago I went for 11 days, then 17 days... three years ago I went my longest, 28 days. Now, as I find my drive lessens (which I simply attribute to getting older) the idea of going multiple months, well, it has me curious.

So, what about you fellows? Any young bucks who are doing this? Back when I was in my 20s, if I didn't get off a couple times a day, it was only because I was stuck with family and couldn't find the privacy.