The big chastity poll.
The big chastity poll.
Please select all activities you participated in while in chastity whether occasionally or all the time. You can check off more than one activity. Should be interesting.
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Re: The big chastity poll.
Isn't "orgasm control" necessarily an activity? Or am I missing something?
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I choose Mistress/Slave although that's not exactly the relationship - I am not a mistress and he is not a slave - we have a Domme/sub relationship. 

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Re: The big chastity poll.
Does it count as forced-bi/cuckolding if the other was mostly only imaginary, except for the large, realistic dildo (with balls)?
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Re: The big chastity poll.
Does it count as BDSM if your partner doesn't think it is? My wife thinks she's vanilla.
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Ahhh yes and what about the online cuckold thing we do? It's not physical stuff but more mental, does that count?TwistedMister wrote:Does it count as forced-bi/cuckolding if the other was mostly only imaginary, except for the large, realistic dildo (with balls)?
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Re: The big chastity poll.
How about being an obedient husband for her? And always with a smile. That's a big time activity in this household.
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Re: The big chastity poll.
LOL, she doesn't think that locking her husband's junk in a cage is kinky? That it isn't a form of 'bondage' or 'domination'?Tom Allen wrote:Does it count as BDSM if your partner doesn't think it is? My wife thinks she's vanilla.
While I can't say for sure how it would be with the Real Thing, I can certainly say that having something that *looks* like a real cock and *feels* like a real cock in one's mouth, and still sporting a hard-on, can be somewhat...embarrassing...and might be even more so if she were to notice and use it as an excuse for further embarrassment. In my mind, the effect of the mental and/or physical 'simulation' is not so very far away from the reality, just one tiny little step...but maybe a big difference? I dunno...not yet, anyway...but it might be interesting to find out...Lady M wrote:Ahhh yes and what about the online cuckold thing we do? It's not physical stuff but more mental, does that count?TwistedMister wrote:Does it count as forced-bi/cuckolding if the other was mostly only imaginary, except for the large, realistic dildo (with balls)?
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I'm totally serious. My wife does not self-identify as kinky. My wearing a chastity device? Just a sexy game. My using a strapon while wearing said chastity device? Well, she likes the D, and she's got to get it from me, somehow. All the flirting and texting about domination and control? Nope, just normal foreplay. Demanding that I have sex with her without me coming? She's just keeping me aroused and interested.TwistedMister wrote: LOL, she doesn't think that locking her husband's junk in a cage is kinky? That it isn't a form of 'bondage' or 'domination'?
There's more than one kind of denial going on at the Edge household, I think.
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Yes, which is why it is there. I thought of leaving it off but if all that the guy is doing, he would have no option to select.Tom Allen wrote:Isn't "orgasm control" necessarily an activity? Or am I missing something?

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