Cycles in Chastity

Living the real life under lock and key
TwistedMister
Posts: 3893
Joined: Thu Nov 10, 2011 5:49 pm
Location: Northern New England
Last orgasm: October 21st, 2020
Orgasms this year: 4
Gender:

Re: Cycles in Chastity

Post by TwistedMister »

It's occurred to me that the longest I ever have gone, about 50-60 days twice, it was very, very hard to get motivated to resume denial afterwards. I couldn't match the intensity or motivation. But both times, breaking our strict orgasm "diet" coincided with some major life events, and we had a lot going on.
That's one reason why I think it's best if she insists on re-locking immediately after any 'playtime', especially if an orgasm was permitted. There's no thinking about it, no need to get 'motivated', it just *is*, it's like standard procedure- "OK, I'm done playing with it, you got your rocks off, so get that thing back in its cage NOW." Plus, I think it adds to the psychological effect if you KNOW, without a doubt, that as soon as she is finished with it it goes right back in the cage whether you cum or not.
04/07/19 "And then I 'punished' you by making you lick my pussy after I let my other 'boy' fuck me." --Mrs. Twisted
User avatar
locked4her55
Posts: 2236
Joined: Sat Feb 25, 2012 10:23 pm
Location: Massachusetts, USA
Gender:

Re: Cycles in Chastity

Post by locked4her55 »

TwistedMister wrote:as she is finished with it it goes right back in the cage whether you cum or not.
We started doing this as a New Years Resolution along with some other rules.

So far, it's working out great for both of us.
Happily secured since 4/2010 :-)
Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
DHgate A271 & 273, DHgate Full Stainless Steel Belt & DHgate HT nub
Currently wearing A273