Dan, I agree with you that a cock ring is an excellent virtual chastity device, and a good compromise between no device and full lock up. I have been wearing one 24/7 fo a number of months for this reason, and have only had it off (with permission) for air travel. I shower with it on, ensuring that I get a finger aound the inside to clean it thoroughly.danj wrote:What has worked wonders for me is I now wear a metal cockring all day...not overly tight (2"). It signifies to both of us that it is her cock, and serves as a constant reminder of that fact for me.
My wife loves the look and the feel of the steel and what it symbolises, and the fact that the ring makes my balls more prominent whether naked or wearing tight clothing. It also gives me a firmer and longer lasting erection.
I have recently 'upgraded' to a tighter one, which provides a more constant reminder and avoids the problem of the previous one occasionally slipping off. It is also more difficult to get on and off, giving it a greater sense of permanence. Another advantage is that when I am permitted to cum, the orgasm feels more restricted and therfefore that my wife remains totally in control even at that moment.