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by nervous newb
Mon Nov 23, 2015 1:41 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: pushing past the "blue balls"
Replies: 27
Views: 7101

Re: pushing past the "blue balls"

I find that lube in the cage is not good for me, but lube around the ring is good. We just went 11 days without any type of release for me, and yesterday it was bad enough again that I probably could have toughed it out and gotten through it, but it's back into the work week today and I need to be 1...
by nervous newb
Thu Nov 19, 2015 7:17 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [nervous newb] Getting ready for my first lockup
Replies: 39
Views: 22817

Re: [nervous newb] Getting ready for my first lockup

Life has been busy lately. One of our businesses has a peak for Christmas shopping, so it's been work all day at two of our businesses, then go home and work until midnight labeling, packing, shipping, etc... So we've been tired, and sick bugs have started to go around too. This has led to the curre...
by nervous newb
Tue Nov 10, 2015 7:09 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [nervous newb] Getting ready for my first lockup
Replies: 39
Views: 22817

Re: [nervous newb] Getting ready for my first lockup

Haven't posted on my Journey thread for awhile. It seems like we were settling into a routine with the chastity. It had become "normal" for us. Recently though, after she released me from my captivity and released the pent-up eagerness, she left me out for a few days. 5 or 6 I think, I don't remembe...
by nervous newb
Tue Nov 10, 2015 6:48 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: pushing past the "blue balls"
Replies: 27
Views: 7101

Re: pushing past the "blue balls"

Thanks for all the replies. We've tried incorporating some of the suggestions into our exploration of the chastity lifestyle. I've started using a little lotion around my balls where the ring settles. I originally had been doing that when we started doing this in early September, but then stopped be...
by nervous newb
Thu Nov 05, 2015 7:21 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: pushing past the "blue balls"
Replies: 27
Views: 7101

Re: pushing past the "blue balls"

Thanks everybody for the responses. I appreciate all the info. There were a few questions asked in them and I'll try to reply to them and I have a few more questions of my own, I had a few more that some of you have already answered. I am wearing the Holy Trainer V2 with the 45mm ring. I had the 50m...
by nervous newb
Wed Nov 04, 2015 8:46 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: pushing past the "blue balls"
Replies: 27
Views: 7101

pushing past the "blue balls"

So this is a question for the guys that regularly are pushed weeks without ejaculating. My wife and I have been working on this chastity thing for about 2 months now. When we started, I couldn't last more than 2 or 3 days before the blue balls were so painful that she'd have "pity sex" with me to re...
by nervous newb
Mon Oct 19, 2015 7:35 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [nervous newb] Getting ready for my first lockup
Replies: 39
Views: 22817

Re: [nervous newb] Getting ready for my first lockup

Wow, it's been almost a month since we started exploring this chastity lifestyle. It's getting almost normal. Most of the time I don't notice that I'm wearing a chastity device. I'm wearing the HTv2 with the 45mm ring. I started with the 50mm ring which was way too big, even though anything smaller ...
by nervous newb
Sun Oct 04, 2015 6:34 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: No Cage - Alternative Idea
Replies: 8
Views: 2949

Re: No Cage - Alternative Idea

TwistedMister, you stated that when you left your ring on from your CB3000 you had issues. Do you ever sleep with the full cage on? If so why would you not have any issues with the cage on as the ring would obviously have to be on as well. I know a number of people sleep with their cages, if the ca...
by nervous newb
Sun Oct 04, 2015 6:22 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Calming down
Replies: 9
Views: 2445

Re: Calming down

Denial is something new to my KH and me. Well, chastity is too. So we're still in a discovery phase. Last night she was all ready to have sex and we were both going to have orgasms, but when the cage was off, we're in bed, and she's got her hand down my pants, she changed her mind because she starte...
by nervous newb
Sat Sep 26, 2015 2:48 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: clean underwear ?
Replies: 17
Views: 8447

Re: clean underwear ?

I've finally been able to adapt to chastity to be locked for over a week. I started dribbling today and my wife had me put on one of her maxi pads. A little strange and embarrassing at first, but it's doing the job of keeping my underwear dry.