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"Positive" is a little open-ended, but I'll say yes. Nearly all of it seems to be because of the increased attention I give her, but even in those times where life happens and we are just busy surviving, I think she seems slightly more content when I'm caged.

Slot openings are great. The style on the S99 is common on a lot of the cheap stainless steel cages, and one of my favorite designs as far as openings go. If your urethra isn't lined up, it's quick and easy to move it around with a Q-tip. I also wear an elastic waist strap with stainless steel cages...

I bought an assortment cages from Ternence last year, including one with the "double bar" ring. The cages are the lowest quality ones I've bought yet, with lots of slop in the alignment pins and so many different places to get pinched. I tried the double bar one for a day, and I think it c...

One thing i noticed about my wife is that she still likes to hear that i want her. That she is desirable. So there is a little bit of difference between asking for an orgasm and expressing the desire to be intimate with her. And I am trying to be better about being more specific about my desire to ...

Me, from the shower: Do you mind if I get out and clean up? Her: (slow to answer) I guess, at least if you really think it's needed... Me: Well, it's been a week, and I probably should make sure my skin is okay, and clean up better. Her: That's fine. Not long ago, she was worried about me, and pushe...

Me: So it's been a month since I came.
Her: "...was there supposed to be a point to that?"

My wife has a hard enough time getting the barrel lock out of the cages I've been wearing lately; she shows little interest in helping remove the cage and even less in putting it on. Cages are so finicky as far as fit goes and skin/ball burn/pinching issues are so common, if you're trying to stay lo...

My wife rarely interacts with the cage, as chastity is more my thing than hers, so if I expected much chastity and/or genital play I would be in a mood a lot of the time. I'm good with any physical touch, though--in my mind I am in the cage for her, and if she wants to caress my arm instead of fondl...

It sounds to me as if your issue is girth rather than length...My suggestion would be to look for a more open cage rather than a tube and with a bigger diameter Most "off the shelf" devices have 1 3/8" inside diameter...Not only are they hard for me to get on, but skin sticks out of ...

I’ve been trying out a couple of Ternence micro cages: The smallest and the second-smallest . I bought one ring for them, and the micro cages separately with a matching pin spacing. Aside from the pins being loose and prone to pinching, urination is the biggest issue; it feels like there’s a urinary...