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by Steve2059
Mon May 03, 2021 8:59 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Best vibrator for edging in a steel chastity cage?
Replies: 2
Views: 247
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Re: Best vibrator for edging in a steel chastity cage?

Doesn't do it for me I'm afraid, so my answer's none at all :-(
Once I'm locked, that's it.
by Steve2059
Thu Apr 29, 2021 8:27 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: CONSTANT burning pain, not normal right?
Replies: 9
Views: 442
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Re: CONSTANT burning pain, not normal right?

We're all different, so a cage that's comfortable for one might not suit another. After two months you should be making some headway. Early on, after trying different options, I came to the conclusion that a stainless steel cage was much more suited to long-term lockups than plastic, but again that'...
by Steve2059
Mon Mar 22, 2021 10:18 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chafing
Replies: 4
Views: 305
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Re: Chafing

I use this: https://www.vaseline.com/uk/en/products ... otion.html

Mind you, I didn't know it was for menopausal people with cisvaginas until I posted this link :-) On the bottle it just says for mature skin.

Very good though.
by Steve2059
Mon Mar 22, 2021 10:14 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: What are the psychological and physical stages of orgasm denial for you?
Replies: 3
Views: 601
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Re: What are the psychological and physical stages of orgasm denial for you?

Short answer - not any more, I wouldn't thank you for a full orgasm nowadays. The only reason I ruin is because my wife likes to see it happen, and likes that I have to eat everything. Long answer - I started out with edging and T&D, leading to orgasm after some hours or days. For me, it was mor...
by Steve2059
Sun Mar 21, 2021 7:44 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: What nickname does your Keyholder call you?
Replies: 8
Views: 1054
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Re: What nickname does your Keyholder call you?

I would love a caged nickname (in fact I'd like to be called Chasty and fantasise that She does and that sometimes She accidentally uses it in company and then I have to explain) but She wouldn't be comfortable.
by Steve2059
Sun Mar 21, 2021 7:26 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Orientation of people on this forum
Replies: 19
Views: 1555
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Re: Orientation of people on this forum

After much thought I describe myself as Hetero-romantic. I lost my virginity with a boy as a teenager and enjoyed gay sex as a bottom. But it was a physical thing and I never had boyfriends in the way I formed relationships with girls. I also have a girly side to me and enjoy discrete cross-dressing...
by Steve2059
Sun Mar 21, 2021 7:12 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Butt plugs in chastity
Replies: 8
Views: 2045
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Re: Butt plugs in chastity

Butt plugs (in me) are very much part of our lifestyle these days. We have a variety, which She chooses, but it's not every day and it's generally for a few hours around sex/teasing time. I've been in permanent orgasm denial (apart from occasional ruins) for a few years, both caged and honour, and o...
by Steve2059
Wed Mar 17, 2021 10:31 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Holy Trainer official vs knock-off
Replies: 4
Views: 642
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Re: Holy Trainer official vs knock-off

HoD does sell Chinese knock-offs and you pay a premium. But I used them because they keep stock to hand so delivery is in a day or two, not weeks or months. I wear steel devices and find the quality to be excellent with no rough bits to chafe. My experience with HoD HT though was that the tube-ring ...
by Steve2059
Wed Mar 17, 2021 10:26 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Urine Flow in HTV4 Nub Knockoff
Replies: 10
Views: 900
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Re: Urine Flow in HTV4 Nub Knockoff

Hi, When I started out in chastity my first "serious" cage (my very first was so ill-fitting it nearly put me off) was a HT v3 small (only two sizes back then). I had the same problem as you from the get-go: it seemed comfortable enough but I never felt I had emptied my bladder properly. T...
by Steve2059
Sun Mar 14, 2021 11:33 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Locked during arguments
Replies: 19
Views: 1441
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Re: Locked during arguments

It's not the cage as such but the FLR of which the cage is a component. I basically have two modes: First is good behaviour and second is best behaviour.

The first doesn't allow much scope for arguments and would likely lead to the imposition of the second. The second is challenging.