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by Steve2059
Fri Aug 05, 2022 8:41 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Surprise question from my wife
Replies: 10
Views: 2882
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Re: Surprise question from my wife

hah! Be careful what you wish for. I expressed a desire to wear panties for sex as a dressing up thing many years ago. My wife wasn't too impressed at first. She got into it after a time, then said I should get my own knickers because I stretched hers, and I built up a collection. Then about three a...
by Steve2059
Thu Jun 23, 2022 9:46 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Strap-ons. Yes or no? And why?
Replies: 12
Views: 1556
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Re: Strap-ons. Yes or no? And why?

My wife commands penetrative sex only occasionally and has never wanted a strapon or anything artificial inside her. So it's all me, but not allowed to cum and pulling out immediately She says. She also doesn't like wearing the one we have, so pegging is done by hand. She has a vibrator which She us...
by Steve2059
Thu Jun 23, 2022 9:37 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: MM security screw vs padlock
Replies: 21
Views: 1245
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Re: MM security screw vs padlock

My micro-cage has a security screw which is very comfortable since the whole locking mechanism is so small and smooth. But around three days is my limit with this one. My long-term cages all use "magic locks" which have the top exposed, causing sharp edges that dig in to both of us but whi...
by Steve2059
Tue Jun 21, 2022 12:03 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Does anybody else enjoy morning erections?
Replies: 12
Views: 1064
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Re: Does anybody else enjoy morning erections?

My fave cages are inexpensive short-to-micro, stainless steel. When I started out, ill-fitting cages that were far too big would be agony during the night, but now I do enjoy a would-be stiffy.
by Steve2059
Tue Jun 14, 2022 4:20 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Which key holder to choose
Replies: 7
Views: 1011
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Re: Which key holder to choose

I agree with Tom that there are ethical issues. You could ask a friend to be a keyholder with full explanation of the circumstances and of your kink. If they were up for it this would be consensual and ok, but it would change the friendship dynamic permanently. There is a possibility though that the...
by Steve2059
Tue Jun 14, 2022 4:01 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Point of no-return....
Replies: 11
Views: 5198
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Re: Point of no-return....

With us, chastity has evolved over a number of years, and now we do what She wants 100% of the time. I've been in permanent penile orgasm denial for some years, but this has evolved from caged to mostly caged to today's arrangement. She noticed that it takes a few days to settle into being relocked,...
by Steve2059
Tue Jun 14, 2022 3:54 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Key lock problems
Replies: 11
Views: 1255
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Re: Key lock problems

TBF I would have thought that having the lock seize up is the fantasy of many of us on here.
by Steve2059
Tue Jun 14, 2022 3:52 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: College/roommate advice?
Replies: 2
Views: 743
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Re: College/roommate advice?

Are you planning to be casually naked in your roomie's presence? I'd try to sound him out about his attitude to non-vanilla, and if you think he's ok, have a talk about what works for you. You never know, you could have more in common than you expect. Otherwise, carry on as now and let him think you...
by Steve2059
Tue Jun 14, 2022 3:45 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: For him
Replies: 15
Views: 1308
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Re: For him

Your boyfriend seems to be selfish and a taker. Any friend, boy, girl or other, should be concerned if their partner is unfulfilled.

Sorry to ask, but are you sure he's worth it?
by Steve2059
Sun May 22, 2022 7:53 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Recommendations pls
Replies: 5
Views: 629
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Re: Recommendations pls

I wouldn't necessarily think about websites. Presumably, your wife is internet-literate and is able to find sites should she want to. My own experience is that the onus is on me to show her the advantages of the kink/lifestyle, so attentiveness, good demeanour, helping with chores, but definitely no...