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by Steve2059
Sun Mar 29, 2020 9:18 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Does anyone else know?
Replies: 16
Views: 862
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Re: Does anyone else know?

No, only my wife. I do fantasise about others finding out, but I think the risks are too great, and if it doesn't work as planned there's no way to get friends etc. to un-know. Last year though we went to a big party in another town and when I put on my "posh" trousers the outline of the cage was fa...
by Steve2059
Sun Mar 29, 2020 9:07 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Ball ache
Replies: 9
Views: 335
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Re: Ball ache

My "blue balls" symptoms are mild, but they certainly haven't receded since I started T&D in late 2017. Even though I've had perhaps half a dozen orgasms since then (plus some ruins), I've never had a wet dream and can only remember one in my entire life, about 20 years ago. I do spend a fair amount...
by Steve2059
Thu Mar 26, 2020 6:10 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Does your doctor know?
Replies: 14
Views: 809
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Re: Does your doctor know?

This is what I was hoping for - some really good conversation about the question if you shared your chastity with your doctor. One under lying theme I get is there is a preponderance of - don't flaunt your chastity in front of others, because they didn't ask for it. I think someone even used the wo...
by Steve2059
Tue Mar 24, 2020 9:12 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Does your doctor know?
Replies: 14
Views: 809
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Re: Does your doctor know?

If you think your doctor ought to know then broach the subject in a diplomatic manner, perhaps beginning, "could I share something with you in my personal life that could have a bearing on my health". The GP will certainly say yes, but now s/he's braced for whatever might follow (and it could be s/h...
by Steve2059
Thu Mar 19, 2020 5:38 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: "Do you miss being able to make choices about your orgasms?"
Replies: 9
Views: 3700
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Re: "Do you miss being able to make choices about your orgasms?"

I've been chaste on honour since mid-November, and I'm finding it much harder to stay in control and follow Her wishes than just being locked up. She thinks, with a little justification in my case, that caging is a three-season thing. But caged or not I have no choice. And that's how it should be. I...
by Steve2059
Wed Mar 11, 2020 8:41 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot things your keyholder has said!
Replies: 573
Views: 232365
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Re: Hot things your keyholder has said!

This is my first post on this thread - She isn't one for hot quotes usually. We've been revisiting a dice challenge game we used to do at the start of our chastity adventure (we did this to transfer the pressure of dominance from Her to a set of dice) and the last two challenges have been back-to-ba...
by Steve2059
Sat Mar 07, 2020 7:36 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Koalaswim flat cages
Replies: 5
Views: 3371
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Re: Koalaswim flat cages

Wow, smallest I've seen.

I fancy a go - I'm very small when flaccid - but I think it would be for play not long-term.
by Steve2059
Fri Mar 06, 2020 3:25 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: First month
Replies: 6
Views: 2443
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Re: First month

Welcome to the life.
by Steve2059
Fri Mar 06, 2020 8:03 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity for non-masturbaters
Replies: 7
Views: 3068
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Re: Chastity for non-masturbaters

Hi Worrier, My advice would be first to think carefully about what you want since chastity as a kink is a broad range of activities and denials depending on what fits. Your term "invested in my sexuality" doesn't really say what you are looking for, and does it imply that your wife currently isn't i...
by Steve2059
Thu Mar 05, 2020 2:49 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: I bought a CB600s, but wonder if it was a good choice
Replies: 59
Views: 7710
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Re: I bought a CB600s, but wonder if it was a good choice

Another high rider here, and originally thought a hinged base ring was the obvious way forward. It didn't work for me at all; too many pinch points caused chafing after just a few hours, even after I'd applied medical tape to parts of the device. DHgate Chinese devices in stainless steel have been r...