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by Steve2059
Sat May 18, 2019 4:33 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: I miss chastity
Replies: 3
Views: 244
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Re: I miss chastity

Very sorry to hear this. I know in my own relationship I still have to tread a careful path: She now enjoys most of our chastity-related stuff but I'm very aware that if things became a burden to her She'd pull the plug. One of our core rules is that I must never initiate sex or intimacy if caged (p...
by Steve2059
Wed May 15, 2019 8:18 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [Steve2059] Incredible (to me anyway) Journey
Replies: 8
Views: 1145
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Re: [Steve2059] Incredible (to me anyway) Journey

Chapter 7 Since my last post here, things have continued as previously described until recently. I had two occasions per week I could get my hands on my cock, one on Mondays where I had to complete a two-hour edging session, and another on Fridays where Her orders were that she would unlock me, I wo...
by Steve2059
Wed May 15, 2019 7:53 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Earliest Chastity memories?
Replies: 15
Views: 582
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Re: Earliest Chastity memories?

I found it in mid-2017. I had an itch I couldn't scratch and didn't quite know what it was. Over 30-odd years my wife's and my sex life had evolved into something that was comfortable and romantic, but predictable and almost diarised so that on Friday evening we had sex, in the same way that on Tues...
by Steve2059
Tue May 07, 2019 11:49 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Urethra Tube Hygiene
Replies: 7
Views: 517
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Re: Urethra Tube Hygiene

A couple of my cages came with urethral tubes and I have tried them out successfully. However, I haven't used them regularly precisely because of the fear of infection, though they are a turn-on for me, since I'm caged for at least days between short releases so I'd be continually worried. I never h...
by Steve2059
Tue May 07, 2019 6:47 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Rules of engagement
Replies: 5
Views: 401
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Re: Rules of engagement

As I am trying to figure all this out in RL, since introducing OD and chastity last fall, I was looking into rules. A forum search didn’t bring up something useful from the last two years, so I thought I start a discussion. How do you see it? (Full) Orgasm allowed yes/no (frequency) Spills (minimiz...
by Steve2059
Tue May 07, 2019 6:13 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot dildo sex
Replies: 9
Views: 489
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Re: Hot dildo sex

Go for it Mr D, and hat off to you. It's a while since I mentioned this to HER, and I think SHE's settled that it's not HER thing, so pushing the matter would straying into trying to top from the bottom for me. Typically I'll be let out once or occasionally twice in a week to provide PIV in position...
by Steve2059
Fri Mar 15, 2019 10:28 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Morning Issues?
Replies: 11
Views: 720
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Re: Morning Issues?

My issue with base-ring pain is whether my scrotum is tight or floppy (sorry, just don't know the technical terms - if there are any). It pretty much has a mind of its own in this regard, but the tightness and therefore propensity to symptoms from mild discomfort (which can be good - I like to know ...
by Steve2059
Mon Mar 11, 2019 9:35 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Growers and Showers Base Ring Design
Replies: 6
Views: 666
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Re: Growers and Showers Base Ring Design

As very much a grower, my favourite and most comfortable cage has an ergonomic base ring that is wider than it's high, and has a wide, flat cross-section. I think it spreads the pressure of attempted erections (what my wife calls "strainage") better than a circular base ring of round cross-section. ...
by Steve2059
Fri Mar 08, 2019 10:26 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Just starting out
Replies: 2
Views: 357
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Re: Just starting out

Hi there Lefy and welcome. On the issue of cage length, the jury is in on this one and going long is generally a mistake. When I started out I had the same worries as you and ended up being very uncomfortable in a cage that was far too big. I'm 7.5 inches erect but as little as 1.5 inches flaccid, a...
by Steve2059
Fri Mar 08, 2019 10:09 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Matrix of chastity
Replies: 34
Views: 2490
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Re: Matrix of chastity

I think there are so many vectors one could consider that there's little danger of "factioning up" since we'd all pretty much find ourselves in factions of one person :-) I've come to the view that chastity is a more wide-ranging fetish than most, but with a couple of "anchor points", if you will, t...