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by Steve2059
Tue Oct 06, 2020 3:33 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Explaining my fetish to a new partner
Replies: 5
Views: 514
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Re: Explaining my fetish to a new partner

Do you both find it awkward to talk about sex, or just you? She has said she wants you initiate sex and guarantees she won't say no, and it sounds like the naked coffee thing is her idea. That sounds to me like she would be positive, at least to listen, if you opened up. She's also seen a photo of y...
by Steve2059
Thu Oct 01, 2020 6:31 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity pros versus amateurs.
Replies: 13
Views: 946
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Chastity pros versus amateurs.

I was locked up on the stroke of October 1st after 12 hours freedom. I find this exciting and not a little scary since I managed Locktober in 2018 but had to give up after 3 and a half weeks last year with the end in sight. But I'm struck at how most members here are pretty "Meh" over the whole thin...
by Steve2059
Thu Oct 01, 2020 7:02 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: 30 days in
Replies: 1
Views: 317
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Re: 30 days in

I have a wife similar to Sirmebane's, who is inclined to take what she sees as pity. I found though that She's as happy with a ruin as She is with a full orgasm, and She just thinks there should be semen on show from time to time. In fact She now prefers them since She found out I can multi-ruin and...
by Steve2059
Wed Sep 30, 2020 7:13 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Denial amplifying fantasies.
Replies: 6
Views: 544
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Re: Denial amplifying fantasies.

One thing I’ve noticed when being teased and denied often for days/weeks at a time, my fantasies go through the roof. Pretty much why lots of us do it. For me, pre-chasity, "enforced" chastity was itself a fantasy so I suppose I'm living the dream. Over the last few years it's stopped being an occa...
by Steve2059
Sun Sep 27, 2020 4:32 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Dating and chastity advice
Replies: 8
Views: 726
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Re: Dating and chastity advice

Have you thought of using a kink dating site such as Fetlife? There's a lot of debate as to whether chastity is a popular or a rare kink (for obvious reasons we tend not to advertise) but my guess is that it's a bit left-field as opposed to lingerie or a bit of light bdsm, and most of the cages that...
by Steve2059
Sun Sep 27, 2020 5:55 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How odd is my immediate dive into chastity?
Replies: 2
Views: 275
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Re: How odd is my immediate dive into chastity?

Rule 1 - it's about being happy. If you are and she is, then go for it. There isn't really a rule 2. Advice time: these things develop and evolve. Try and let it; don't force things. Many of us here have tales on how badly that worked. Also, think about how your submission can work for her - how muc...
by Steve2059
Sat Sep 26, 2020 5:12 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: easiest for wife to install.
Replies: 11
Views: 1159
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Re: easiest for wife to install.

You're a brave man Sir.

I love my wife dearly and She me, and She is a senior nurse so one would think She'd have a gently touch.

Every time She's tried to fit my cage it's ended in tears (literally, and once with blood). That's one area we've totally given up on.
by Steve2059
Sat Sep 26, 2020 5:05 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: So close, but always coming up short
Replies: 6
Views: 513
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Re: So close, but always coming up short

I sympathise. I used to be morbidly obese then lost a lot of weight (though being stuck in my house for months this year has undone some of that). I have the same problems over slipping out when I get what I can only describe as ultra flaccid. I'm in the UK and use a site called House of Denial for ...
by Steve2059
Thu Sep 24, 2020 6:55 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Trying Micro-Chastity
Replies: 12
Views: 1830
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Trying Micro-Chastity

My usual cage is this: https://www.houseofdenial.com/collections/metal-chastity-devices/products/steel-hod-s80-with-urethral-tube?variant=72885665793 The one problem is that I'm a super-shrinker, so I don't always reach the end of the 4.5cm cage. I've been reading about very short cages and wondered...
by Steve2059
Thu Sep 24, 2020 6:26 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Prepping for Locktober
Replies: 12
Views: 1177
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Re: Prepping for Locktober

We've been trying out a new micro-chastity cage with a view to Locktober this year. I've done three days in it but suffering from the settling-in discomforts that seem to come with new devices, though the difference in length from my old favourite is only 1.5cm (3cm cage, 4.5cm total vs 4.5cm cage a...