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by Steve2059
Sun Oct 20, 2019 1:10 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Something new... what was that?
Replies: 7
Views: 705
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Re: Something new... what was that?

What were you stirring with exactly? :D ;)
by Steve2059
Sat Oct 19, 2019 8:38 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How did you first learn about orgasm denial / chastity devices?
Replies: 12
Views: 804
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Re: How did you first learn about orgasm denial / chastity devices?

I came across it quite by accident - in fact, in my vanilla(ish) years I had no idea that chastity was anything other than something evangelical Christians did before marriage, nor that cock cages existed. I wasn't entirely naive and did have a few fetishes and kinks I indulged in, if only rarely be...
by Steve2059
Thu Oct 17, 2019 8:34 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Help with ruined orgasms?
Replies: 14
Views: 1100
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Re: Help with ruined orgasms?

A lot of what is written about ruined orgasms is, in my experience, plain wrong. Particularly in porn, we find penises abandoned by hands literally a second before they erupt and obviously the guy's having a proper orgasm, if abandoned, not a ruin. I suspect that this is put about as a genuine ruin ...
by Steve2059
Tue Oct 15, 2019 7:48 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Locktober & NOvember
Replies: 24
Views: 2230
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Re: Locktober & NOvember

Well, today was my halfway point, being locked a day and a bit early. Then She pointed out that my record, set last year (though a bit by accident) is 35 days without unlocking and wouldn't it be a shame to unlock at 32 days with a new record so close. New release date: 5th November. Assuming She do...
by Steve2059
Sat Oct 12, 2019 4:12 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Locktober & NOvember
Replies: 24
Views: 2230
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Re: Locktober & NOvember

Not nearly as many posts on this subject as last year. Are we getting sensible, or are we all just locked up in any case? She, after a period of "Meh", has come back with a will for this. I've been continuously locked since 29 Sept, so tonight will be a full fortnight. This includes a romantic long ...
by Steve2059
Thu Oct 10, 2019 5:39 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: ... for some value of "vanilla."
Replies: 59
Views: 33109
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Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

I've just re-read Tom's original post here and want to perhaps bring it back a bit to its original message - with respect to everyone. Tom says back in 2015 that he set up the site for those of us who had the chastity kink but who were basically otherwise vanilla without the bdsm "baggage" of more e...
by Steve2059
Thu Oct 10, 2019 4:54 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: So, how many devices *do* you have, anyway?
Replies: 171
Views: 112612
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Re: So, how many devices *do* you have, anyway?

I'm housekeeping. Gone from four to three, throwing out the plastic Holy Trainer V2 knockoff. Whether or not a genuine HT is the business is a moot point. The shape is wrong for me with the tube top digging in and chafing, but the enclosure vs the open ring stainless steel device I wear these days l...
by Steve2059
Tue Oct 08, 2019 6:46 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Not sure we can make it work...
Replies: 9
Views: 792
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Re: Not sure we can make it work...

It's been mentioned by others here that a framework would help - a description of your agreement on how your chastity scene will look to each other. You mention that your wife would become bored and annoyed by having to enforce rules, but I'm not sure that that was what Lady M meant. In my own relat...
by Steve2059
Mon Oct 07, 2019 9:47 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Sea & catheter
Replies: 11
Views: 1352
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Re: Sea & catheter

I think there might be a distinction between a catheter and a urethral tube. Shouldn't be any problem with catheters since this is a closed system from your bladder to a leg bag or other urinary collection device. Urethral tubes, at least the one on my device, are open-ended so you'll get as has bee...
by Steve2059
Mon Oct 07, 2019 9:39 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Don't Cum Challenge
Replies: 7
Views: 1347
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Re: Don't Cum Challenge

Could you adapt the website edgemeplease to your specific aims? The edging task can be made quite difficult and the longest setting is around 80 minutes. You also have the option of the site commanding you not to cum at the end. You could use another method, perhaps dice, to see how many time a day ...