Been on a journey over the last year (divorced 2nd time), neither one did i want.
Have not had orgasm in 2025 by choice, and decided to try being self locked to put physical control on me. The amount of clear "head space" this immediately opened up was astonishing to me. I never realized how much head space my penis size, ED, porn, and masterbation took up. I have set rules for myself and see this as a long-term commitment. This afternoon will start my 5th day of being locked only taken off for short periods for hygiene.