[Holdy] The Honest DIYer

[Holdy]

As my thread title suggests, I’m solo and am determined to be true and honest, being the KH.

I started my journey a few days ago. Resin cage with barrel locking, not a padlock. Reason being, I tend to wear leggings and skinny jeans and I wanted to avoid the bulkiness of a padlock. Nice idea but I find that the barrel housing is visibly outlined. So long jumpers are called for.

I started off wearing it for just a few hours at a time. I was scared to pee with it on, expecting it to be messy. Well, I eventually bit the bullet and sat on the loo back to front, feeling as if I was on a jet ski, and….. I found everything was just fine!!! No mess.

I’ve yet to wear it overnight but hope to cross that barrier very soon.

Comfort? Generally all ok but I did graze myself on day one as I experimented with the ‘base plates’ (there must be a better name than that!!).

I’m undecided about whether to buy another. Go longer or shorter? I chose my first well, it fits perfectly. Going longer isn’t recommended, I believe? Shorter? Then peeing could be messy?


I’m in no hurry so I’ll browse the forums here to get guidance.

Finally….. why and how am I doing MC? Because this is me choosing something I am able to control, with a fair amount of discipline.

Goal? Apart from removing for hygiene reasons… leave on for perhaps a month before I’m allowed to errrrr…. Have a break .

First target…. Leave on overnight. Tonight .

[atxmtb]

I'm curious how you decide to unlock? Like do you set a time before you lock and stay disciplined to wait till that time? Or something else?

[Holdy]

Atzmtb

As I’m new to it and I need to gain confidence in what’s workable, my aims are:-

Hygiene- checking that there’s not unacceptable odour and, more importantly, avoiding a UTI, until I feel confident all is in order, I’ll be unlocking every time I shower/bath and give the cage a good clean.

Health- with the hygiene unlock, I’ll be checking for pains, lumps, bumps, chafing and colour.

Cage reliability- I’m super scared that one day the lock won’t open. So I’ll be checking the lock operation thoroughly. Although I realise that Sod’s Law says the lock will fail one day when I’m wearing it.

I’ve decided I need to have an emergency ‘break in’ method. I did think about getting some bolt cutters before deciding that a hacksaw is probably marginally safer, if tackled very very carefully!!!

Once I’ve assured my safety I’ll formulate a schedule for unlocking. I’ve no idea, yet, how long it’ll be between unlocks.

[Holdy]

I made it through the first night wearing!!

Interesting. I had feared it’d be uncomfortable. It wasn’t. I sleep on my side, not my front. Instead, rather pleasingly, I was very much aware of the cage’s presence which was….. arousing, not getting hard, just mentally. Which, I believe, is the goal (for many?).

I was wondering whether I’d wake up with morning wood, and would it hurt?. There wasn’t any morning wood.

I noticed overnight that the cage is too large at times. So I’ve ordered what I hope is a slightly smaller one. Hard to say if it is smaller as the measurements didn’t say from where to where on the tube. .

All in all I’m pleased with my progress!!

[latecomer77]

Like you I've just started into chastity with a resin cage with integral lock. So far I haven't suffered any discomfort and can pee quite comfortably sitting down facing front as normal. No mess at all. I haven't slept while locked yet but I'll be trying soon.

[WifeIsVanilla]

I had an emergency break in about 8 years ago after I had my Mature Metal JailBird threaded for a security screw. One day (for reasons I don't remember) I decided to use the padlock instead of the security screw. The lock hasp became stuck in the threads and would not move even 1 mm further in or out. The body of the lock was just flopping around, totally in the way and preventing me from rotating the hasp.

It took me about 10 minutes to realize how stuck I was and to consider my options. I decided that the file that I use to sharpen my lawn mower blade was more controllable, therefore safer, than a hacksaw. I worked VERY CAREFULLY for about a half hour using the corner of the file before I was able to completely cut through the hasp. With body of the lock gone, the very short length of the hasp was easy to rotate, unscrewing itself from the threads after about 8 turns.

[Holdy]

Crikey. Nightmare. So it does happen. Yes. A file sounds like a better option than a hacksaw.

Well handled!!

[Holdy]

Well, things are ok generally. It’s quite a lifestyle change and needs attention. Wearing a cage you’re constantly reminded it’s there. Which is nice. Last night lying in bed I started to feel very aroused indeed. Mentally more than physically. So I thought I’d experiment with elevating the physical side. So I watched some stuff on pornhub. This had the effect of driving me mentally to the brink of crumbling, yet physically there wasn’t an equal reaction. Yes I was aroused but not massively so. I wondered how this couid possibly be. I was about to find out.

I woke up at about 4am…… with full on morning wood. I lay in bed for about 40 minutes cradling the swollen package which was oh so heavy. Then it dawned on me that I needed to pee. So I got up carrying my bowling ball to the bathroom for what would necessarily be a sit down requirement. So I sat. Nothing came out despite there being a gallon backed up. I did manage eventually although unsure whether I’d emptied properly. So I had to take several yards of loo paper in case there was delayed emptying which you normally only discover when you leave the bathroom. In the bedroom, trying to cradle my swollen package with a red shiny scrotum, I selected a heavy duty thong into wish I stuffed myself and the loo paper.
I put the kettle on to boil and went into the lounge. Sat down. And realised that I couldn’t cross my legs. At least, not without castrating myself!!!!

I busied myself to try to reduce the extreme pressure between my legs. Ended up with lover’s balls lol.

I’m been wondering how on earth I’m going to control myself as libido increases. I actually feel that I’m being kinda greedy. I’m avoiding an O and consequently libido increases. Then behaviour could change. I’ll be dressing more like a whore than ever!!! I’ll report back tomorrow. Today I’m out and about to a variety of places seeing various people as I carry my secret with me. I’ll do my best to avoid wearing revealing jeans. And another thing I’ve noticed….. with a cage, when you sit down or stand up, the cage doesn’t behave like your tackle normally does. The tube doesn’t squish up and bend away like a dick does. So it sort of looks like I’ve got a hard on.

Note to self. Conceal waist downwards when changing position.

[Holdy]

The past few days have been a learning curve.

First off was another night wearing. I woke up generally ok and after a bathroom stop I made coffee etc and wondered what to do with it.

I decided that a hygiene and health check was needed.
So I repaired to the bathroom and, unlocking myself, released one or two egg cups of pee onto the floor via my jeans. Where did that come from???!!!

Ok. I’m uncut. Possibly a reservoir built up? I don’t relish the idea of it sitting in a pee bath and…. Hygiene and….. what if that liquid bank released itself while I was out and about?

It’d never happened before it mustn’t happen again. I need to take more care.


New cage arrived. Slightly smaller. I adopted a new and more careful approach to putting the tube on. Pull back the foreskin and check it hasn’t crept forward whilst locking up.

Locking up, I noticed that the key looked like the other one. I locked up using the other old one. Hang on. The cages were from different vendors and were different in all respects except locking barrel and cage. Which tells me that in China they use a common supplier. Ok, I can understand that to keep costs down but probably not ideal for purists who, where there’s a misbehaving cagee, they can escape easily.

My next purchase….. I think I’m going cobra nano to help avoid….. accidents!!!!

[atxmtb]

I don't understand. Where was the pee? Inside the cage? Or in your bladder? Why did it go on the floor and not in the toilet? I'm confused.