[InversionOfControl] I asked for this; let’s see how it goes.

[InversionOfControl]

Last night Wifey unlocked me. I ate her beautiful pussy until she pulled me up to fuck her PIV. For the first time in over a decade, I came in my wife. It was glorious. I’m still in a high from last night.

I received my vasectomy results on March 27. Wifey locked me up that day before the results came. She teased and denied me for 3 weeks until last night.

She “joked” about locking me back up immediately after sex last night. But she let me stay unlocked for the night.

Over the last few nights, she’s said more and more that she likes having me locked up and being in control of my manhood.

She doesn’t need my help with keyholding anymore. I think we’re extremely close to hitting the point where she’s confident to truly make her pleasure the priority. She’s been leaving me in the dark about being unlocked and has asked no suggestions or advice from me. She’s taking control, properly.

[NewYorkerLocked]

Congratulations! Yours, would be my dream situation. Unfortunately my wife doesn't want to get involved in keyholding. However, she prefers me to be unlocked most of the time. We discussed the possibility of a Third Person to hold my key.

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Last night, wifey set a timer where I was allowed / told to edge and play with myself without cumming. As usual, she doesn’t tell me how much time I’ve been allotted.

This is becoming standard practice for us. She’s been letting me get hard and have stimulation without a cum for a few weeks now as a reward.

This session ended differently though. After a while of edging, she said “stop and lick me. You have until the timer runs out to make me cum” as she took off her pants.

After she came, I came up to cuddle on her and she was laughing, “wow you made it. Good job.” I kissed on her for a minute or 2 and asked if I still had time to play with myself a little more.

She said, “oh right, let’s see” and lifts up her phone. I see the timer:

6… 5… 4…

Ack! I grab my cock and start stroking and she laughed manically and said no you’re out of time now as the alarm went off.

She put her pants on, patted my chest, and said “let’s go watch TV”

It worked out just ridiculously perfect. I’m low key stunned out well she played that

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I haven’t posted for a while because I’m lazy. Our dynamic has not changed but has grown a ton. She’s become much stricter in the past six months. I’m now locked almost 24/7, with only occasional unlocks for stimulation whenever she feels I’ve earned it.

I’m usually allowed to edge once or twice a week. Sometimes she edges me, and other times I’m instructed to do it myself, alone in our bedroom. She has PIV with me every 1.5 weeks or so. I’m often allowed to cum during this time because she enjoys me cumming inside her.

She permits me to eat her pussy without an unlock once a week or so. I also enjoy eating her pussy before our PIV sessions, of course.

Out of an average 30 days, I’m locked for 28 of them. I have 3-4 orgasms a month, while my wife has approximately 11 orgasms a month. I’d like the ratio to favor her more, but this is where we are now.

In the last couple of months, we bought spanking implements. She’s taken a fond liking to spanking my bottom, balls, and cock. She usually mixes it with pleasure, but not always. These pain sessions are rewards, not punishments. We don’t do punishment pain (yet).

I’ll update if I remember anything else. I’ll try to post more often, but rest assured, we’ve been active, and my wife has been drastically embracing her role. I’m the luckiest husband.

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. I’m often allowed to cum during this time because she enjoys me cumming inside her.

My kh also enjoys cum inside. However she has really taken a fancy to piv w/o me cumming. Is this a common practice for you also?


If she does think I need a cum it is by other means. Last week she gave me a nooner hand job. She said she had a desire to watch it spurt and play with it afterward. Makes me terribly horny for her.

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. I’m often allowed to cum during this time because she enjoys me cumming inside her.

My kh also enjoys cum inside. However she has really taken a fancy to piv w/o me cumming. Is this a common practice for you also?


If she does think I need a cum it is by other means. Last week she gave me a nooner hand job. She said she had a desire to watch it spurt and play with it afterward. Makes me terribly horny for her.

My wife/KH pretty much always allows me to cum during PIV. I’m still working on building her confidence to deny me an orgasm during PIV. For now, she still prefers traditional PIV where we finish when I’ve cum.

[Tongue+groove]

I’m still working on building her confidence to deny me an orgasm during PIV. For now, she still prefers traditional PIV where we finish when I’ve cum.

There is a natural beauty in cuming together that I haven’t experienced in a few months now. It will happen again I’m sure, she loves it too much. However there is also an indescribable emotional connection when I don’t finish. Almost sacrificial in a way. The strange connection comes during the relocking process. It’s a type of aftercare in my mind. And I’m always ready for more, no drop time.

Good luck with building her confidence. It will happen if you work together.

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In an effort to post more—

Yesterday wifey and I had a rough day. She became uncharacteristically angry with me and lashed out because she didn’t like how I was cooking my own lunch. Then she went to bed for a nap and to cool down. When she got up, she came to me and apologised, saying she didn’t know what got into her. I forgave her, of course. But we didn’t talk a lot for the rest of the day.

This morning we had to wake up early to attend a family gathering. I woke up extra early to fill the car with gas, get the car washed, and swung by the liquor store to buy drinks for our home and some extra wine for the family. I woke her up after I got home and we drove an hour to the party. The family event went well, everyone had a good time. We stayed about 4 hours.

When we got home, we watched the new Deadpool & Wolverine movie. It was pretty meh, tbh. She had been laying with her head on my chest on the couch, toying with my cage during the last 30 minutes. She sipped her wine throughout the movie night and was pretty sleepy by the end of it. I wasn’t ready for bed yet, but complied obediently when she told me to come tuck her into bed and lay down with her for a while.

We cuddled in bed, she started playing with my cage again. I asked to be permitted to eat her pussy. She asked, “do you really want to?” I said, yes of course, I love eating your pussy. She again asked, “how much do you want it?” I said, “I need to eat your pussy. Please allow me to make you cum. Please.” She giggled and said ok. I pulled off her little sleeping shorts and panties, and worshipped her beautiful pussy for 20 minutes or so. After she came on my face, I kissed and licked and nuzzled her inner thighs. Eventually I came up to eye level and we kissed and cuddled. She thanked me for making her cum, and I thanked her for letting me lick her pussy. We cuddled & kissed for another 15 minutes, and I thanked her several more times for letting me make her cum.

She’s sleeping now. It’s just after midnight. I’m sitting on the couch, cock throbbing in my cage, with the faint taste of her on my tongue.

God I love her. Unf

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A couple weeks ago, I was a little brazen. We were sitting on the couch. I had my mini vibrator on my side table, and I decided to use it on my cage in front of her. We were talking about sexy things but doing this so abruptly earned me the new rule: I’m not allowed to use the vibrator without explicit permission.

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Winding down for bed now. We had a very horny day. Wifey playfully teased and played with my cage and balls all day and said things like, “I came last night but who knows when you might.”

We were talking about sexy things over breakfast, and I asked if I could have her worn panties after her shower. She told me she wasn’t having a shower today but I could just have them now anyway. She stood up, took off her shorts, took off her panties, handed them to me, and put her shorts back on, sitting back down on the couch.

Fuck. It’s going to be a great day.

I drank my coffee and held her panties to my nose. We continued to chat about the day as usual, some sexy things, mostly mundane life things. She’d occasionally look directly at me and giggle to herself, shaking her head at the sight of her desperately horny husband sniffing her underwear over his morning coffee.

We did our own thing for a while. She watched reruns of her favorite show, I played some Age of Empires 4 on my home office gaming rig. I wore her panties on my head, strategically placed to align the crotch with my nose while I played. She came in a few times to giggle and tease me for being brainlessly horny.

After a while, I asked for and was granted permission to edge myself with the vibrator on my cage. She decided she didn’t want me distracting her on the couch, so she walked me to our bedroom. We walked to my side of the bed, where I stripped and laid down. She handed me the vibrator and said, “you can have one hour. No cumming.” Then she licked my cage for a moment and left the room.

The vibrator felt amazing on my cage. I edged myself 15ish times. I found a nice tingly wave to ride a while, those very first flutters. I held it there for about 25 minutes and stopped, or else I would’ve cum. I could have rested a while and done it again, but that felt daunting.

When I came into the living room, she seemed surprised to see me so soon, made a mock pouty face, and teased, “awww couldn’t take any more?”

Yeah, pretty much.

The day was filled with innuendo, texting each other sexy memes, etc.

Around 5pm I went to take a shower and asked if she would like to see the new bun tail butt plug when I get out. She laughed and said, “god you really are horny today” before saying it sounds cute and yes.

I came out nude to show her, wearing only my cage and plug. She smiled, laughed, and said it’s adorable, telling me to bend over. I put my arms against the wall, sticking my ass out towards her. She walked over and inspected me, “so fucking cute!” She slapped both sides of my ass a few times with her hand, then turned my shoulders towards the bedroom, patted my butt, and said “get dressed, off you go.”

I swapped the bun tail plug for the remote controlled vibrating silicone plug and got dressed. I gave her the remote and sat down on the couch beside her. We watched TV and scrolled the internet on our phones while she absentmindedly changed the vibration patterns, looking over to watch my reaction. After I while I snuggled up on her and put my head in her lap. She rubbed my back and neck while the plug buzzed my ass nicely. I massaged her feet, getting lost in all the nice things. I occasionally humped the couch cushion and she giggle, commenting what a horny mess I am. We stayed like this for 30-45 minutes or so.

I really can’t explain how gratifying and intimate this was. It felt so *right*. It felt completely natural, simply building on our previous play.

Eventually we had to make dinner. We ate and did our own thing for a couple hours. I left the plug in the whole time and she randomly changed the pattern throughout.

A little later, she looked over and abruptly asked if I wanted to eat her pussy. I said absolutely, please. She said ok let’s go and stood up, walking me to the bedroom. She slide her shorts off, laid back on the bed, and spread her legs. I licked her for 15 or 20 minutes until she said she wanted to feel me inside of her. She reached to her nightstand, got the key, unlocked me, and slid off the cage. I quickly got out of the ring before my erection could make it difficult. She stroked me for a minute while kissing me, then rolled over on her back. I got on top and fucked her slowly. I was so worked up, I knew I wouldn’t last long. After maybe 10 minutes, I told her I was close to cumming. She told me to cum inside her, “cum for me, cum for me” and I did. It was a great one.

This was probably my most vulnerable, submissive day since we started down our kink path years ago. Simultaneously, this was one of her most confident, assertive, playful days. She’s grown into her dominance so beautifully.

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Yesterday wifey allowed me to edge myself with the vibrator on my cage. When I asked permission to cum, she said no. Then she teased me for the rest of the day yesterday.

This morning I woke her up with kisses and snuggles at the usual time she gets up. She teased my cage for a bit and said no when I asked to eat her pussy. Then I asked if I may have a ruined orgasm in my cage. She had other thoughts. She unlocked me and sat on my cock. She gave me permission to cum, and damn it was a great one.

Thank you sweetie. I love you