Common Terms and Abbreviations

[cagedbasilisk]

I note that some forum participants refer to their partner or keyholder using the abbreviation “CS”. I have struggled to figure that one out. Any help?

I may be incorrect, but I think it's only one that does that.
Sam3655.

Sincerely, D.

[Mr Pickle]

Yeah. Likley initials of his Keyholder.
I bagged C as mine.

[Curiousrk]

Thank you both!

[TwistedMister]

CNC = Consent/Non-consent

Minor correction here- it's 'consensual non-consent', as in giving an initial consent, before activities are begun, to being subject to being coerced/compelled/forced to participate in acts or activities which one might otherwise refuse to consent to if the nature of the activity was known in advance, or to which consent might be refused or withdrawn once the nature of the activity becomes obvious, but being given no option to do so.

My wife and I have this type of arrangement. There are certain things that I don't 'want' to do, and which I would refuse to do if given an option, but aside from a relatively short list of 'hard limits' I don't have that option. She can do, make me do, or compel me to participate in almost any activities she desires, using whatever means of compulsion/force are necessary to coerce my performance/participation even if I have not previously consented, and regardless of any protests or any other indications that I do not wish to [continue to] participate. As long as there are no health/safety concerns there is no 'safeword' to get me out of it.

For us, Yes means 'yes' and No means 'do whatever it takes to make me do it anyway'. I find it extremely erotic to be compelled/forced to do [sexual/fetish/kink] things that I don't 'want' to do, and that I would refuse to do if I were given the option.

Of course, this is definitely not for everyone because of the risk that you might find yourself in a situation from which you really, really want to escape but are unable to do so. For me, this includes 'chastity' itself- if she wants it 'locked up', it gets locked up whether I want to or not, I don't get any choice...which is what makes it *really* 'hot' for me.