Keyholder Forum

[Tom Allen]

There may have been a few gay male Keyholders listed, but they haven't been active in several years.

[FatRomanticNerd]

Where do I find the keyholder forum?

[Schnoff]

You do not. You’re misunderstanding the purpose of that forum. It’s not for lonely dudes to seek a key holder. It’s for key holders to be amongst themselves.

[MeatLocker]

Thanks, Lady M.

[FatRomanticNerd]

So, if I dont find the keyholder forum, how do I get invited? I am not male. I am a married keyholder looking for same to get ideas and converse. Maybe this isnt the forum for me. Sorry for the bother.

[Tom Allen]

I guess we missed the keyholder part in your introduction.

You're all set.

[MeatLocker]

Sexist and not at all friendly to locked doms. I understand the admin’s feelings and respect their choices, but I’m obviously not welcome. Fair enough. It is your forum, after all.

Apparently there’s a strict ‘Dom female, locked male’ dynamic going on in this forum that isn’t readily apparent. Be forewarned, it’s not pansexual.

[Tom Allen]

Sexist and not at all friendly to locked doms. I understand the admin’s feelings and respect their choices, but I’m obviously not welcome. Fair enough. It is your forum, after all.

How would we know you're a locked Dom? It was not in your intro post. The only question you asked in this subforum was "Is the Keyholder's Forum Ladies Only?" We have a lot of guys asking about the KH forum because they want to see what thr women are talking about (hint: not them).

Apparently there’s a strict ‘Dom female, locked male’ dynamic going on in this forum that isn’t readily apparent.

This forum was set up as a place where mainly vanilla couples (straight or gay) could discuss chastity and OD without the distractions of BDSM, sissy, cuck, D/s, or other such interests. Most of the women here are not "dommes" and a lot of the men aren't really "sub".

Be forewarned, it’s not pansexual.

Anyhow, you're certainly welcome here to join in the discussions about being locked up, etc. But we do prefer to keep the KH forum women only because we want a safe space for the mainly vanilla women to ask questions or express concerns, without the pressure of men giving them "helpful" advice.

[Schnoff]

> I am a married keyholder looking for same to get ideas and converse.

I got to apologize, I missed that in your intro post. We've had an influx of folx from CM recently, and are trying to keep the "vanilla" vibe.

It'll help the admins here if you let us know what's going on, so we don't need to connect the dots between different threads. That's getting increasingly difficult as volume increases. Something along the lines of "I'm my husband's keyholder, please give me access to the Keyholder's Forum".

Which has now been done.

We want to be welcoming; sometimes we fall short.

[MeatLocker]

Thanks for making that clear. I appreciate the info.