[KHEmmi] Emmie's version

[Rufusstone]

Hope you haven’t got your tool out though Mr Pickle!

[Rufusstone]

Quick question MissEmmi:
Having re-read both your threads, I’m still unsure but I assume chastity was Herbie’s request which didn’t work out with the cheap cage but is now (very well indeed!).
And you’ve run with it to please him but have now found it works really well for you, not just sexually.
So no need to answer this but I can see that 12 months trial may become more permanent?

[KHEmmi]

Quick question MissEmmi:
Having re-read both your threads, I’m still unsure but I assume chastity was Herbie’s request which didn’t work out with the cheap cage but is now (very well indeed!).
And you’ve run with it to please him but have now found it works really well for you, not just sexually.
So no need to answer this but I can see that 12 months trial may become more permanent?

In short, it began with a light-hearted comment as we were looking online for other BDSM stuff, restraints and a paddle as I recall, when he said something about me needing to behave. Then we spotted some chastity cages and I (almost jokingly) said that if he didn't behave, I'd get him one of those. When he didn't outright object, a seed was sown. I think we both thought about it and came around to the idea separately and in slightly different ways. This was actually a few years ago but didn't work out because of the poor quality and fit of the cages that we bought (we had no idea what we were doing to be honest).

Fast forward to 2024 and we thought we'd have another go. More research this time but still made another wrong choice with the CB6000S. You've probably read about that. Since we moved on from that we've got on really well. Herbs has adapted to life in his cages and I've found it interesting, fun and worthwhile. I actually love having him caged full time now. Unless something pretty drastic happens, I don't think we'll stop using these things once the year's trial is up.

Feel free to ask if there's anything else you'd like to know.

[Rufusstone]

I think that’s all thanks. Carry on the good work! Great to read two sides of the coin.

[Rufusstone]

A couple of thoughts for you to consider:
As you’re a CFNM fan, have you already thought of bringing in a trusted friend for Herbie to serve tea/champagne to? Or if too close to home, there are CFNM groups on other forums and meet like minded couples in social settings.
Secondly, we’ve had discussions about punishment but rewards should be considered. I know you have already said that you make sure he gets lots of attention too and that you have done lots of internet research.
But people get focused on unlocking whereas it can be more complicated than that.
We know Herbie isn’t getting unlocked soon. However, how about training him to cum in his cage? Once achieved, this could be a reward. Or a punishment- when September comes, so does Herbie , in his cage which isn’t unlocked.
There are various methods to achieve it which I won’t mention in case he has ideas…
But there is one method I would recommend as it is a more “romantic, intimate” method for a loving KH to use. I might go into detail later though- I’ve rambled on a bit here and don’t mean to hijack your thread.

[KHEmmi]

A couple of thoughts for you to consider:
As you’re a CFNM fan, have you already thought of bringing in a trusted friend for Herbie to serve tea/champagne to? Or if too close to home, there are CFNM groups on other forums and meet like minded couples in social settings.
Secondly, we’ve had discussions about punishment but rewards should be considered. I know you have already said that you make sure he gets lots of attention too and that you have done lots of internet research.
But people get focused on unlocking whereas it can be more complicated than that.
We know Herbie isn’t getting unlocked soon. However, how about training him to cum in his cage? Once achieved, this could be a reward. Or a punishment- when September comes, so does Herbie , in his cage which isn’t unlocked.
There are various methods to achieve it which I won’t mention in case he has ideas…
But there is one method I would recommend as it is a more “romantic, intimate” method for a loving KH to use. I might go into detail later though- I’ve rambled on a bit here and don’t mean to hijack your thread.

Thanks for your ideas Rufusstone! I don't call it hijacking the thread so don't worry.
You are right about me reading a lot of stuff and learning a lot as I go, and have plans in my head around rewards like you say.
Those plans aren't very clear and definite at this point but I have plenty of time to prepare, hehehe!
One thing I hadn't thought of was inviting friends around but as soon as I read it I could think of at least two who I would count in as reliable and trusted and would also enjoy the scenario.
That's an interesting one. Thanks again!

[KHEmmi]

I remember Herbi writing a while ago about how he woke up “with a naked female wrapped around him”. Fortunately the naked female was me.

Well this morning, I woke up with a naked male wrapped around me.
Feeling his warm breath on my shoulder and neck and a hand on my boob, then light kisses on my neck and a nibble at my ear.
It was lovely so I kept my eyes closed and continued to breath deeply as if still fully asleep.
Eventually I had to be honest and open my eyes, partly because I couldn't deny how aroused I was getting from his attention and little moans and murmurs were beginning to creep out. What a great way to wake up.
I rolled onto my back, gave him a warm smile and a loving kiss before pushing him down to suck my nipples.
Fully ready, I pushed him further down to finish me off.
An even better way to wake up.

We cuddled up close for a while, me stroking his back and pulling him up against my body.
His metal cage pressed against my pussy. His cock straining hard. Of course.

He'd been edged last night and done well.
He thought it was going to be changeover night where he got put into one of the other cages but I surprised him by handing him the small steel again saying “Put this back on”. He did so without complaint.

Today looks like a nice day.
Maybe a walk in the fresh air would be a good idea, back home in time for tea and then “Strip” I think, ready for a relaxing evening.
Might be fun to tease him a little more. No unlocking for edging but that's better because I can still watch him in the steel. It's nice to not have any real plans sometimes.

[WifeIsVanilla]

Thank you for your lovely posts!

A question if I may, about how many orgasms per week are the ideal number?

[KHEmmi]

Thank you.
I'm glad you like reading. I always hope my posts are useful and interesting.

As to your question well, that's a difficult one!
I don't count them!
I will be honest and say that it has really made me think.

First though, let me check... You're asking about for me or for Herbs?
For Herbs it's easy. It's 0.2 or less per week.

But I assume you really meant for me.
To answer it I'm going to ignore that awkward and tedious few days that crops up. I will admit to being a bit cranky and unpredictable at those times.

For the rest of the month though?
Well, always on waking up. One or two here maybe.
Always before settling down for the night.
If Herbs is working from home, then midday but if he has gone to work then obviously not (although the Lush 3 might help).
Evenings are more variable where the 'on demand' rule applies. Might be 3 or 4 or more, but sometimes not at all (we might be out for example)

Weekends offer more scope. Maybe 6-8 each day but sometimes as low as 1 or 2 if we're out or busy and up to, well there's no upper limit really is there?

I'm going to go with an average of 5 per day on weekdays and 8 per day at weekends. What's that work out at? 41 per week?

Remember it varies wildly though.

Off to see if I can find an old jam jar and some beans now...

[WifeIsVanilla]

Thanks for the reply, and GOOD FOR YOU!!!

I think that it is fantastic that you are able to enjoy so many pleasurable sensations while simultaneously providing Herbs with so much enjoyment. It is, indeed, wonderful!