Chasity and age

[abe]

I´m 62 and my "gf" 58. Our sex-life was declining and agedependent factors contributed to this - erectile dysfunction on my part and dryness and pain on her part. MC has had many positive effects for us. Abstinence helps against the ED and as she decides when it´s time for me to come she can start a "session" by giving me "the pill". What could have felt negative and embarrasing thus is turned into an "extra spice". I feel very horny and potent. I don´t know how much is due to the pill but who cares? It´s fun and it´s restricted to once in 1-2 months by our chastity play so the cost is negligible. Also it could have felt depressing and embarrasing to have to use lube to have intercourse but as it turned out it helped a lot for her problems. We bought a lube that feels warm when you apply it. It´s also wonderful when she uses it for tease and denial on me so all in all the negative was turned into positive and we got new exciting components in our chastity play.

[Atone]

Welcome to the forum Abe.

Also it could have felt depressing and embarrasing to have to use lube to have intercourse but as it turned out it helped a lot for her problems.

This is interesting to me. Is this a generational thing? We haven't always used lube but certainly never hesitated if it was necessary. Even when much younger I remember using lubricated condoms. We are in our mid 40's now so not that much younger.

Now we almost always use a lube of some sort. I think we are better stocked than most of the "toy" stores. Some are more slick than others, some have nice smells, some have different tastes, some are good with different toys, some are like creams and work in the water. Often, part of the foreplay is deciding which we want to use.

[Tom Allen]

Mrs. Edge hit menopause early - very early. We've tried a number of lubes, and have settled on Liquid Silk as being the most natural feeling. Not the most natural tasting, but in our experience, we can't get both.

[DocSwitch]

Me and the girlfriend are both mid 20's (Me 25, her less then a month away). Been together for 6 years, into BDSM about that long as well. This is the first year we're really switching for prolonged times and the first year we're playing with chastity.

[fuzzydunlop]

We've through kind of a child rearing wilderness for the last several years, and have only recently started to come out of it. During a lot of those time, I would go through episodic chastity streaks, but they also had a celebacy feel to them sometimes (lots of working out when I had a groove). Now, she's a little more into it, and we are trying to do chastity streaks in between when she is at her peek.

[chastityslave22]

I'm 52 now, and my own interest in enforced chastity and real hevay steel chastitybelts is something of the last ten years. It was a former Master of mine, who introduced it to me, and now i'm into it myself, locked up in a extrenely heavy Carrara 24/7/365. Before the start of the new century one seldom saw or heard about real chastitybelts (when, then mostly of the CB-3000-cufftype), now they aoppaear to be hot.

I wonder, if it is something you get interested into when getting older, or if there are also allready a lot of young guys (under 30, or even as a teenager) who dream of becoming locked up. Although myself allready into bondage at that young age, i didn't, but may be because in the 1980s i had never heard of the existence of chastitybelts.

[TwistedMister]

I wonder, if it is something you get interested into when getting older, or if there are also allready a lot of young guys (under 30, or even as a teenager) who dream of becoming locked up. Although myself allready into bondage at that young age, i didn't, but may be because in the 1980s i had never heard of the existence of chastitybelts.

I was attracted to B&D long before I was aware that it was a sexual thing. I was not aware of male chastity devices until sometime in the '90s, I'd heard of female devices of course, but never male. When I stumbled across the CB2000 I was instantly fascinated.

[WifeIsVanilla]

I am 63. Anyone here older than that?

[Atone]

I am 63. Anyone here older than that?

Holy crap that's old. Do the little bits even work any more? I'm surprised you would even need a chastity device at that age.

Just to be clear, I am just kidding. I am sure there are others here that are older than that. I'm looking forward to my 60's, maybe all the kids will be out of the house by then. With an empty house we could *not* have sex anywhere we want

[WifeIsVanilla]

Yes they work.

Actually, the constant stimulation and pleasant sensations are the main attraction for me since my wife won't play.