Is chastity turnining me bi?

[Finn]

Years ago, I was friends with a couple, where the husband was very bi, submissive, and also liked cross dressing. There was some MmF from time to time. The longer I was denied, the more comfortable I was with sexual stuff. As guys, we can all relate to the male parts. In this case, there was friendship and affection, but not really any romantic attraction. I was probably more comfortable with him, than with many guys, in that he was smaller than me, fairly hairless and liked womens underwear. At any rate, being kept chaste and horny for months on end, certainly upped my "bi-comfort level" in real life. I really did enjoy having my cock used as a play-toy, and providing orgasms for both genders. I haven't found a situation since, where everyone is safe, comfortable and only exchanges fluids with each other. Basically, I have done it, I do miss it, especially when denied.

[Edgewood]

fairly hairless and liked womens underwear

Yep, that would work for me. Especially with longer periods of denial.

[Finn]

fairly hairless and liked womens underwear

Yep, that would work for me. Especially with longer periods of denial.

That's the thing, we all have some degree of bi to us, but not every guy will appeal, or be comfortable in a real situation.

[LOCKED HUSBAND]

The longer we play these thoughts have come to mind as I service my wife orally and with her toy. I find myself licking her juice from the dildo, seeing it as a real cock servicing her as I lick them both awaiting the reward . Eating my own cum is a huge desire, have done it alone many times. Not sure about eating another mans cum. Never had these thoughts being locked. Haven't had my cum but once since locked, miss it, she knows and has says soon. I'm finding many of my thoughts have changed, don't know what will come next.

[chinacuck]

The longer we play these thoughts have come to mind as I service my wife orally and with her toy. I find myself licking her juice from the dildo, seeing it as a real cock servicing her as I lick them both awaiting the reward . Eating my own cum is a huge desire, have done it alone many times. Not sure about eating another mans cum. Never had these thoughts being locked. Haven't had my cum but once since locked, miss it, she knows and has says soon. I'm finding many of my thoughts have changed, don't know what will come next.

This was part of my previous relationships, but not my current one. I would love to have my KH/wife peg me more often while I service her imaginary boyfriend. But I think for me it's just the sex. When I masturbate I always eat my cum and have tried to increase my cleaning of my KH after sex. I fantasize about being cuckolded and made to do cleanup duty but that may be years away.

I can appreciate the male form but prefer a woman. That said some of my strongest prostate orgasms were from men.

Does denial increase you desire and reduce inhibitions? I believe so. Is it a problem? only if you let it be or it is something your partner is against.

Explore it and if you enjoy it then great, but if you don't then at least you know.

[TwistedMister]

The longer we play these thoughts have come to mind as I service my wife orally and with her toy. I find myself licking her juice from the dildo, seeing it as a real cock servicing her as I lick them both awaiting the reward . Eating my own cum is a huge desire, have done it alone many times. Not sure about eating another mans cum. Never had these thoughts being locked. Haven't had my cum but once since locked, miss it, she knows and has says soon. I'm finding many of my thoughts have changed, don't know what will come next.

This was part of my previous relationships, but not my current one. I would love to have my KH/wife peg me more often while I service her imaginary boyfriend. But I think for me it's just the sex. When I masturbate I always eat my cum and have tried to increase my cleaning of my KH after sex. I fantasize about being cuckolded and made to do cleanup duty but that may be years away.

Growing up, I had *zero* knowledge of same-sex relations until about age 12, when I saw 2 men kissing...which inspired an instant wave of revulsion. I was totally disgusted, and to this day I find it abhorrent (and this is one of my few hard limits).

However, I now find myself [shamefully] aroused at the thoughts of being forced to watch my wife fucking other men and to 'clean up' after they cum on her or in her, to 'fluff' them in preparation for fucking and to suck the combined juices from them afterward.

While being penetrated with a dildo Mrs. Twisted has teased me about making me watch her fucking other men, and has (despite a professed aversion to m-m activity) taken pleasure in forcing me to lick and suck her juices from a dildo while insinuating that it is a boyfriend's cock. I have been embarrassingly aroused during these events and, even more humiliating, she has observed this arousal. Perversely, the humiliation of her seeing my arousal causes me to become even *more* aroused; and I have experienced an almost electrifying excitement and trepidation that, having seen my arousal, she may be inspired to make such an event a reality...especially since she has been aroused by it too, even to the point of dreaming about it (she talks in her sleep). I think that the only thing holding her back is her inhibitions brought about by a strict Catholic upbringing...though these seem to be eroding more and more as she experiences the pleasures of the hedonism that being 'Mistress' provides her the freedom to enjoy.

I was going to say that I wasn't sure which aroused her more, the idea of being able to fuck other men or the idea of forcing me to watch/participate, but as I think about it I am more convinced that it is the latter...which, of course, is the more preferable. The idea of her simply wanting to go and fuck someone else holds no attraction or eroticism, it is the situation of her wanting (forcing) me to observe and participate, and her enjoying the ability to do so that stimulates the arousal (for both of us, from our respective sides of the equation).

Does denial increase you desire and reduce inhibitions? I believe so.

I think so too. The hornier I get, the kinkier my thoughts become. At maximum kink, I find myself aroused by thoughts of being bound/restrained (in various manners) and being subjected to a variety of situations- being forced to serve as 'clean-up boy' at an orgy involving a large number of men and women; being forced to observe/participate/clean up while Mrs. Twisted enjoys the pleasures of a fairly large number of men; being completely restrained at an orgy, where any who please are permitted to 'use' me in any way they wish (with the exception of causing me to orgasm)- used orally and anally by men and women [with strap-ons], teased by the women (along with a certain amount of CBT) and with the addition of a certain amount of humiliation for my being aroused and hard while being so used; and a number of variations of this theme.

In all of the scenarios there must be *at least* one women present, participating, directing and dominating. The idea of a scene in which there are no women is an instant shut-down. The use of force/bondage is also a necessary component- I have no desire to simply do these things of my own free will, it is the element of non-consensual and forced participation that lights my fire.

(To be completely truthful, I must admit that my fantasy scenarios include many more variations and fetishes but they are beyond the scope of the topic, and I fear that *some* of them may/might be a bit squicky even for the more open-minded members of the forum. My 'nym is appropriate, but does not convey the true depths of my Twistedness so I'll just leave that to the imaginations of those who care to amuse themselves with the speculation...)

[LOCKED HUSBAND]

it 's so reassuring to know I'm not alone and to have a place to tell all and share these feelings with others. TwistedMister Thank you for sharing, it's as if you were writing from my mind.

[maxANDsue]

I am not into feminization although my wife used to tell me to wear panties when we played sometimes. However I bought ones that were solid colors and looked like any thong underwear that a man would wear.

Maybe it is because of my age but although I thought it would be great to be bi, I just cannot imagine being sexual with a guy. Just no interest there. My wife, on the other hand likes to play with women in threesomes with me but only did oral twice in 4 decades. She has no problem with touching and kissing another woman but only with me there with her. She does not consider herself bi in her mind but is OK in including them in our sex play. I guess it is the same way with some guys. OK for play with the wife there but not one on one with a guy.

[LOCKED HUSBAND]

I wouldn't consider myself bisexual, but being locked in chastity over the past year has put thoughts in my mind to make me wonder if she asked/told me how far would I actually go. Being teased while locked has made me actually ask her for anal penetration, something I never considered before. Perfect example I was all but begging for penetration the other morning as I painted her toenails ( something else I never dreamed I would willing do). Chastity has raised many questions in my submissive mind. I am willing to go wherever she is willing to lead me. Last night we purchased a couple of beginner anal toys at a local sex toy shop, not sure yet, for her or for me. But I will let you know how it works out, as I'm grateful to have found this forum. It's nice to be able to talk to people who understand these feelings, as they are happening

Thank You all

[locked4her55]

Last night we purchased a couple of beginner anal toys at a local sex toy shop, not sure yet, for her or for me.l

I'm not really a "betting man" but my guess is, you might want to lube yourself up.