Relief

[Atone]

I'd say I prefer to no longer have "regular" orgasms at all, but as I'm just starting out the reliability of that statement is suspect.

yeah, I would like to say that sometimes too but so far have been able to restrain myself. I'm sure one of these days it will slip out. I just hope my wife doesn't hear me, she just might be willing to make that happen.

I can say that I am at a point right now that I don't desire an orgasm at all. What I really crave is just the feeling of being stroked or to be allowed to penetrate my wife briefly. I was thinking about this earlier today when I was reading Steve's blog (http://glowinside.wordpress.com/2012/05 ... r-lose-it/) earlier today and wondering if my brain has really replaced the feeling / desire for orgasm with this desire for sensual touch.

[J&M]

Hello: M here. If you have seen our previous posts, J and I share a login. I'm the KH.

I find this thread fascinating. We are newly exploring male chastity. I can't fathom keeping him locked up for several months. I want him too much. We just started a few weeks ago. J was locked up for 5 days after we got his first device. Since he's been locked up for 7 days. I free him each morning for work, then he's locked up when he comes home, until the next morning. Come Friday night after work, he's locked up all weekend, 24/7. Only to be unlocked Monday morning. He is unlocked just after I shower, right before he showers, then after he's dressed and off to work. I "trust" he's behaving during work hours, which I know he can't do much at work. It's an honesty code we have. NO masturbation.

I just can't imagine having him locked up for months. J wants to test his limits, which I'm for, as long as I'm pleased. But I will honestly say as KH that I will release him when I'm ready as I crave him inside me. As I said, I'm new at this game, but maybe he's lucky he has such a horny KH. Or maybe he'll be lacking because he wants to be more frustrated. We're still learning on this new journey.

I'm curious though, what your KH's think. Or, maybe, what do you think? I'm wondering if some KH's are so brash to keep you locked up for so long. Or maybe that's how you prefer. As a new KH, getting your insight, on top of J's as well in our own personal life, is very interesting. I'm just taking all of this in, this new world, one day at a time.

Thanks for sharing. I'm learning so much.

[Curiousnotgeorge]

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[J&M]

M here again.

Thanks Curiousnotgeorge and Ric C, appreciate it. We have all the toys, some used currently and some used in the past. Guess it's time to break them back out and just continue playing. We're talking a lot about all of this and are very much on par with one another. I guess I just find the different experiences I read about to vary so much, which is reality. We'll find our way. Thanks for being part of our journey. This is a great forum. This is the one we chose to join after finding several, and I think we landed in a great place for helpful advice!

[Atone]

I guess I just find the different experiences I read about to vary so much, which is reality. We'll find our way. Thanks for being part of our journey.

The journey is the fun part, thank you for including us in yours.