"Hello world" thread

[schoolmarm]

My husband suggested that I join this forum - specifically the Keyholder Forum. I am very new to all of this. I guess you would say I am VERY vanilla. Of course, I am guessing on that since I only just learned that term from reading this forum!
My husband and I have been married quite happily for 19 years. We started the male chastity thing about a year ago. It was his idea and I have taken some time to get used to it. We don't use it all the time. Just every couple of months, just to add some spice! Last time he (and I) lasted 8 days. This time we are on day 9 and both are getting desperate!
My husband suggested that I join here because of the Keyholder's only forum, which I am not sure how to locate. Like I said, I am pretty reserved and shy, so I could use a little advice on how to be more assertive with him, what kinds of things to make him do, etc.
Anyway, I am looking forward to finding new ways to make a good sex life great!

[Patrick56]

My wife and I have been playing with chastity for about 4 years now. For most of the last 3 years, that has evolved to become largely 24/7 for me in a CB2000, although my wife regularly lets me out for playtime and occasionally lets me have a day out for whatever reason she may determine. As the keyholder, she decides!

Neither one of us knew anything about male chastity when we started, and my wife was not keen at the outset as she did not find the plastic cage either aesthetically or physically pleasing to her. She took a while to warm up to the idea of keeping me locked up for her, but now she would not have it any other way. She knows that when I am caged for her, I am thinking about her almost constantly and that I want her ALL THE TIME!

Our story is not unusual, from what I read, but certainly can serve as a case in point to men and women open-minded enough to give "enforced" chastity a try. Be patient with each other, communicate openly, and a great relationship and sex life can become EVEN BETTER! So ladies in particular, if you are new to male chastity and understandably unsure about this odd proclivity you just learned about from your husband, boyfriend, etc, give it a reasonable chance to work. You may be incredibly and pleasantly surprised at the results!

Regards,
Patrick

[celticqueens_sub]

My husband suggested that I join this forum - specifically the Keyholder Forum. I am very new to all of this. I guess you would say I am VERY vanilla. Of course, I am guessing on that since I only just learned that term from reading this forum!
My husband and I have been married quite happily for 19 years. We started the male chastity thing about a year ago. It was his idea and I have taken some time to get used to it. We don't use it all the time. Just every couple of months, just to add some spice! Last time he (and I) lasted 8 days. This time we are on day 9 and both are getting desperate!
My husband suggested that I join here because of the Keyholder's only forum, which I am not sure how to locate. Like I said, I am pretty reserved and shy, so I could use a little advice on how to be more assertive with him, what kinds of things to make him do, etc.
Anyway, I am looking forward to finding new ways to make a good sex life great!

You will notice your username is now a dark red. This means yiou have been set as a member of the forum that will be visible to you when you login next. Welcome to the forum. The KH's will give you plenty of advice from the real world.

[celticqueens_sub]

Welcome to all our new members it is good to see you here.

[locked4her55]

Welcome Patrick56,

You have described how my journey began and I believe how many of us here started. Now take it to the next level and move onto a custom metal device. My wife, like yours did not like the plastic very much. It took us getting a MM Jailbird before I really understood how much she disliked the plastic. We have moved up to a whole new level and she has embraced where it has taken us as a couple.

By the way, the last paragraph of your post should be a must read by all perspective KH's

[Patrick56]

Welcome Patrick56,

You have described how my journey began and I believe how many of us here started. Now take it to the next level and move onto a custom metal device. My wife, like yours did not like the plastic very much. It took us getting a MM Jailbird before I really understood how much she disliked the plastic. We have moved up to a whole new level and she has embraced where it has taken us as a couple.

By the way, the last paragraph of your post should be a must read by all perspective KH's

Thanks for the welcome. Funny you should mention it, but we are poised to do EXACTLY what you suggested. My wife has looked at the MM Jailbird, likes the aesthetics, and has told me to go ahead and order one (must be responsible, though, and pay a few other bills first!). I have read nothing but good things about the way Mature Metal does business, and the way their products fit, so I hope to be able to pull the trigger on this purchase soon.

Apropos of nothing, I'm curious whether other members here have had as good an experience with the CB2000 as we have had. I am amazed that a hard plastic device has survived so much active use over the years and has rarely caused me discomfort despite extended periods of 24/7 caging. From what I understand, I should expect MM to be even more comfortable over the long haul.

[locknload]

I can vouch for Mature Metal. They respond quickly and without complaint to all questions.

[Nadias]

Hi all,

first time posting here, its going to be a short one to begin with just to prevent me from being deleted again.

I will follow up shortly with my story.

[onehornyman]

Hi Everyone,

I'm thinking about joining the chastity cage wearing community. My partner isn't quite open to the idea fully, but I am hoping to bring her around.

While she is getting used to the idea, I am wanting to lock myself away, and so I'm looking for my first device. I am thinking of going with the CB6000 but still up in the air whether to go with the CB6000S or not due to my flaccid size.

I'm from Oz, so not sure how feasible it would be to have a device custom made for me.

[locked4her55]

Welcome to the Forum onehornyman,

Lots or great advice to be found here.

I would say if you are 2" or less when flaccid I would opt for the CB6000s. I began my journey wearing a CB3000 then quickly moved to the CB6000s. It was a great starter device before I moved to custom made stainless.

With regards to your partner, just take it slow and communicate your feelings but remember this chastity thing is a major player in your life right now. Might not be for her so don't overload her with too much.