Negotiating permanent chastity in a relationship

[Caged55]

If PIV is not her thing, then chastity allows her control over your release, when she deems you are deserving of some relief or pleasure (in what ever form). If you both have a mutual understanding, she not being into PIV, then your commitment to her in chastity would be "natural"... If she is against permanent lock-up then it's her way, or more conflict... IMHO giving her or committing to her feelings, and offering chastity as part of this commitment may let her understand you doing it for her, in love and support of her...

[Shepherdsflock]

Caged55, I think you're right. And after last weekend when I couldn't even get hard enough to get inside of her, I think that her original desire for permanent chastity has been reinforced.

Once she realized that long lockup periods made it impossible for me to penetrate her, I think she liked that very much. The idea of me not being able to penetrate her is very appealing to her. I think if she could have her way, I would just be totally impotent and not use a chastity device. But, things are what they are, and as long as I have any erectile ability I think she will want me caged as much as possible.