Sore penis after frequent teasing

[Aarkey]

We use a lot of water based lubricant but apparently it's not getting the job done... Any suggestions?

I agree with the others, try different types of lubricants and/or lotions. There are a lot of different skin types - I find that A&D (which is 50% petroleum based) works best for me on day to day wear, and then at night I will use Gold Bond medicated ointment. FYI, gold bond is menthol, so there is a brief "cooling" when it is applied. Either way, that keeps my skin healthy.

Also, the amount of contact the chastity device has can affect both the friction, and the ability for the skin to "breathe" naturally. No matter what I tried, the CB-3000 & 6000 would abrade my skin after about a week. I have no such issue with my Mature Metal jailbird cage.

[kkw]

We have used coconut oil in the past. That may be what we have to go back to. We have also ordered some different types of lube. Hopefully these things will help. Thanks for the suggestions!

[Lockedchef]

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Not trying to hijack the thread but reading Amazon reviews for this stuff is hysterical. Amazon reviews in general can be a great way to kill 30 minutes but I've never read this many sex toys reviews. Half the time I can't tell if people are joking or serious.

Completely off subject but one of the best set of reviews are for Hasbro Sugar Free Gummy Bears in the 5 pound bag.

To at least contribute a little I would have agree with the coconut oil. Can get 100% organic stuff so it is the least amount of processed stuff you are rubbing on the skin. Adding a couple tablespoons to jasmin rice before cooking is pretty tasty too.

[TwistedMister]

To at least contribute a little I would have agree with the coconut oil.

I can't stand the smell of coconut products. Back when I was in the Army, it seemed that all of the people of a certain ethnic heritage all used coconut stuff, especially hair products, and in mass quantity. The smell was pervasive, and it reeked. A whiff of coconut now tends to turn my stomach...which is a shame because I used to like things like Snowballs, Mounds candy bars, etc.

[Alini]

We use Vaseline. Haven't had a problem. Just have to give him a bath once he is uncage before we play

[VinnyDee]

I keep on reading and seeing lubricants used on a penis and yet I have never used them except for the first few times doing anal sex. I have been masturbating and edged for over 40 years with no lubricant and never had any soreness from it. I guess that my skin is tough after all this time.

How are you edging him? Is your hand pumping up and down fast and hitting his pubic bone? You can try what my wife does at times, soft teasing and slow gentle pumping. You can even edge your husband simply by rubbing the head of his penis. There are lots of ways to edge without it being rough or pumping him. Check out some porn sites and search for "ruined orgasms" to get some great ideas. Sometimes my wife just strokes my penis down and holds the skin tight at the base so that the head of my penis is straining and then teases the head until I cum. Another good method that should not cause any pain is using just your tongue. I like that the best.

[Shepherdsflock]

I think Vinny has the right idea. Technique is the whole reason I won't let my wife give me a handjob. She's horrible at it and rubs me raw. And she isn't really interested in learning to be better at it, so we just don't do it.

[locked4her55]

Technique is the whole reason I won't let my wife give me a handjob. She's horrible at it and rubs me raw. And she isn't really interested in learning to be better at it, so we just don't do it.