One big downside of male chastity

[jgalt]

Thankfully, the crazy-no-sleep-onlythinkofchastity obsession does subside after awhile or else I don't think I would have been able to be a real functioning adult again! It's fun/horrible, but then it subsides into a nice dull ache that you can live with.

[Aarkey]

Interesting discussion. I would like to mention that there is usually local support groups for kinky folks - called munches. Most decent sized areas have them. And if you are concerned about possibly being outed by going to one, then travel a bit and go to one an hour away. You might be able to find some people who are pretty normal, to talk to about it and get support from. And in some more established kink areas, esp major cities, there are often sub groups which are specific that might fit your lifestyle well. One such group is ClubFEM.com - each chapter is unique, but the concept is still the same.

One caveat, not every munch group is as "vanilla" as I think is really needed. So if you're concerned, head a town over and see how it goes. Of course, see if your KH is up for joining you, or at least open to you finding some other like minded folks for support.

http://findamunch.com
http://www.bdsmwiki.info/Munch

[johnsub]

I admire the fact that you can be that open.

I am actually proud that my wife (KH) owns me, and would like to share that.

But there is no way I can go that far except online, and sometimes with female sex partners of my KH.

To be able to tell someone that I am caged and have a tattoo depicting our relationship.
Would be great and would probably enforce the feeling.

Now it feels like a dirty secret we have.

[TwistedMister]

Now it feels like a dirty secret we have.

Personally, I think the "dirty secret" aspect is a 'turn-on'.