It is a problem for her because I cannot maintain an erection. She still gets an orgasm, just not the way she wanted it.celticqueens_sub wrote:I mis-understand? Why is (your) too much numbness a problem for her? Is she getting numb from the cream? If so just use a condom or make certain you have removed all the cream from you.
celticqueens_sub wrote:It is true that some lose their hard-on with EMLA, I guess I am just lucky, however in the past when we first started playing we used to much and it not only numbed my dick for nearly a day, we smothered my cock in it, I did lose the ability to get hard enough te give CQ proper penetration. The experimentation ended up finding that as long as the frenum, underside or my shaft and the top of the tip were numb there was enough top of the shaft stimulation to maintain hardness on a near indefinite basis.
Yes, this is what happens. We have tried using less but so far no luck. We have not tried being that specific on *where* we apply the cream though, I will try that next time.
Yeah, this is the stuff that dreams are made of. Really, I have dreamed about this before, kind of the holy grail of orgasm denial.celticqueens_sub wrote:Achieving orgasm in this numb state is nearly impossible for me. CQ has allowed me to come, if I can, most often I can't. She think it is really funny that she has allowed orgasm and I can't achieve it! VERY frustrating for me.
