Some days I just realize I’m tingly and it’s OK. Other days it’s all I can think about and I stay super horny.denied_one wrote: ↑Fri Jan 31, 2025 4:54 pmDefine "worse than others" in this instance please and thank youinchastityat127 wrote: ↑Fri Jan 31, 2025 11:49 am We call it being “tingly”. It hasn’t gone away in the 4.5 years we’ve been (mostly) full time, but some days are worse than others.
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Ok I wanted to accurately "gauge" how you were using "worse" and in what instance.inchastityat127 wrote: ↑Fri Jan 31, 2025 7:30 pmOther days it’s all I can think about and I stay super horny.denied_one wrote: ↑Fri Jan 31, 2025 4:54 pmDefine "worse than others" in this instance please and thank youinchastityat127 wrote: ↑Fri Jan 31, 2025 11:49 am We call it being “tingly”. It hasn’t gone away in the 4.5 years we’ve been (mostly) full time, but some days are worse than others.
Yes I agree on "worse" here, absolutely
"Other days it's all I can think about"
What are we talking here?
It's on your mind pretty much every second of the day except for fleeting moments of 10 minutes or less where you get some sort of mental relief from the frustrated feeling of knowing it's not ending anything soon?
Or something different?
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It has been my experience that 'mostly ruined' orgasms while caged result in me being even hornier than I was before, within about an hour. No prolonged 'drop'.Chosen_Jackal wrote: ↑Fri Jan 31, 2025 1:23 pm My (very limited) experience so far is that I feel like every sensation, touch and drive to do anything is greatly lessened in the days after having an orgasm. The feeling of the orgasms themselves are amazing, but it’s almost like it’s not worth having to go several days to get back to feeling good again for 15 seconds of ecstasy.
Can I expect this to be more pronounced in the future?
Also, after a couple of years of only 'mostly ruined' orgasms, even attempting a 'full' orgasm ends up being partly or mostly ruined, which also significantly reduces or almost eliminates the 'drop'.
YMMV
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TwistedMister wrote: ↑Mon Feb 03, 2025 12:59 pmIt has been my experience that 'mostly ruined' orgasms while caged result in me being even hornier than I was before, within about an hour. No prolonged 'drop'.Chosen_Jackal wrote: ↑Fri Jan 31, 2025 1:23 pm My (very limited) experience so far is that I feel like every sensation, touch and drive to do anything is greatly lessened in the days after having an orgasm. The feeling of the orgasms themselves are amazing, but it’s almost like it’s not worth having to go several days to get back to feeling good again for 15 seconds of ecstasy.
Can I expect this to be more pronounced in the future?
Also, after a couple of years of only 'mostly ruined' orgasms, even attempting a 'full' orgasm ends up being partly or mostly ruined, which also significantly reduces or almost eliminates the 'drop'.
YMMV
I’m really keen on Red to only give me mostly ruined orgasms with the occasional treat thrown in, but as with everything else, that’s up to her to decide.
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I’m convinced this is the only way to avoid the drop. Am considering discussing this with Mrs. G. Just not sure how.. I’m really keen on Red to only give me mostly ruined orgasms
Here’s a thought just hit her like I did with chastity.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. 

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I refer to it as subspace. Unfortunately, mine goes away around day 85 or so and with play will come back briefly. I'm currently sentenced to a full year, and it's no where near as fun without subspace, although my desire is diminished as well with longterm caging, so it eases the frustration.
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When we take a break, DH has anxiety and will often ask to be relocked.
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I’ve noticed that I yearn to be locked up again as soon as possible whenever the cage comes off for whatever reason.
It feels secure and just right.
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@Sammy
I can barely manage the maybe 5 minutes it takes to clean in the shower. She will unlock me, I will shower and at the last minute I will remove as little of the cage possible. Clean myself, get out, dry, oil and relock asap.
Then sigh a deep sigh of relief.
It’s so sweet of you to be so understanding about the anxiety.When we take a break, DH has anxiety and will often ask to be relocked.
I can barely manage the maybe 5 minutes it takes to clean in the shower. She will unlock me, I will shower and at the last minute I will remove as little of the cage possible. Clean myself, get out, dry, oil and relock asap.
Then sigh a deep sigh of relief.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. 
