Just so weird

[denied_one]

. I have defeated masturbation and even temptation to masturbate with the help of the cage.

My Wife says I absolutely do not need a cage at all to accomplish what we "need to". Which is no masturbation and controlled orgasms.

Not to discredit the primary purpose of your post being erection control. Which by the way is a great way to look at things.

But I have to seriously wonder how many on here could truly after an extended time with out orgasm, be unlocked, and the kh travel overseas for two weeks without communication and avoid a relaxing wank.

No discredit intended but can masturbation really be defeated. If you have then hats off to you!

Like I said no disrespect intended.

My new friend, Mr. Tongue+, no disrespect taken whatsoever. And none meant here either...

I know I am "new" here. When I reply, I typically fill in with some back story. I have been told I am a fantastic story teller, idk if that's a compliment or not. However, as per the usual, I digress...

If I may continue, the last solo "relaxing wank" I attempted was on April 4th, 2024. Yep coming up on a year. The last time I did that, it was the opposite of relaxing for me. As I said, in other places here, I have generalized anxiety disorder.

This "relaxing wank" attempt that was "anything but" was the most hollow, empty freakin nut if I may say so myself and I never ever want that again.

Now my Wife/KH allows SUPERVISED masturbation (sheeesh that's hot isn't it) but solos masturbation is gone and even the desire.

So I guess...idk man...thats just me.

[Mr Pickle]

But I have to seriously wonder how many on here could truly after an extended time with out orgasm, be unlocked, and the kh travel overseas for two weeks without communication and avoid a relaxing wank.

That's a fair point. Likely depends on who wanted it in the first place maybe?
C didnt mind if I rolled my own sometimes. In fact she will on occasion ask me to wank so she can watch, whilst saying naughty thing to me just to see my reaction. Plus im a bit overly proud of my cock so im happy to stroke it.

I never had a problem with masturbation so it wasn't a reason for being caged. In fact there were no reasons other than I wanted to be better. After reading "evolving your man" before it went into cuck, there was an article about managing your mans release. It was this article that kicked it all off. I wanted to be that better husband that was only allowed to orgasm once a week. I became him I hope and then some.
Once a week.. Ha!
Maybe this is why I say "I wasn't expecting this"?

I think two weeks would be do-able at this stage. Three might be pushing it a bit.

[denied_one]

C didnt mind if I rolled my own sometimes. In fact she will on occasion ask me to wank so she can watch, whilst saying naughty thing to me just to see my reaction. Plus im a bit overly proud of my cock so im happy to stroke it.

We do this, we consider this supervised masturbation and involves the both of us, so that is acceptable to Her.

I initiated chastity in 2008, we engaged half-heartedly mainly for 14 of those years.

She grew irritated, disconnected and unneeded, with my three times a day masturbation and thus pushed for more chastity sessions to eliminate that dynamic of "me me me" and help me move more into an "us us us" mentality. Crazy

[Tongue+groove]

Supervised masturbation. I like that term. I have on three occasions in the past year been given a form of that, I think.

1st I was told to do it because she wanted to see how fast it could happen. I think that may really be forced masturbation. If that’s possible. Either way there was no enjoyment as I felt more like a crazed animal trying to break some timing record. She laughed.

2nd. She verbally instructed my stroking. Forced again in my opinion. She got me to ruin myself like this. Again no real pleasure. She laughed again.

3rd. I failed to follow instructions in the end and full on finished. No laughing this time. I was scolded about no self discipline and for not listening. Followed by an extra long lock it and forget about it. It was like my penis didn’t exist for several weeks.

Supervised, forced, dictated I don’t know how to define them but I know the best masturbation is when she makes me watch her from a safe distance.

[denied_one]

Good post!

The only type of masturbation my Wife wanted to get rid of was the kind I did "on my own "

Ya know, when us fellas are all alone or even maybe right next to Her in the bed as She peacefully slumbers....certainly these times sound familiar to some of you guys.

So there is no more "on my own masturbation" nor any desire for any on my part. It's horribly lacking, to me.

[TwistedMister]

I wonder what percentage of people into chastity have ADHD or similar disorders?

Asperger's, Autism, ADHD, Dyspraxia...
I suspect that there are many many people (not necessarily in chastity) who have these things but have never been diagnosed so don't know they have it.

Interesting topic.

I think that *everybody* has some level of these things, to some extent or other. But, in the past we all just dealt with our issues and worked around them, and/or found ways to make them work *for* us.

What I have noticed these days, especially perusing Reddit, Imgur and other boards, is that a growing number of people are saying "Oh I have Xxxxxxx..." and using it as an *excuse* for why they can't or won't do things.

Reading over the lists of things that are used to make the diagnoses of these things leave me with little doubt that, had these been 'a thing' when I was young, I would have been diagnosed with one or more of them. Despite that, I have found ways to be successful in many areas.