Just so weird

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Just so weird

Post by KnownAsHerbert »

I've just read Miss Emmie's words and was struck by just how weird something about this lifestyle really is.

She wrote:

"... the big cage. It holds his cock at a good size for viewing and arouses him a lot too. I like seeing him straining against the bars."

How unnaturally strange is it that we go about our daily lives with our cocks held still against their wishes?

Whether they're held in position "for viewing" or other reasons, it just hit me how odd it all was. Just saying...
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But as Miss Emmitt says,” I like seeing him….”

Her pleasure and the pleasure of our keyholders is why we do it. And there is nothing weird about pleasing the person we love as long as it’s between two consenting adults.
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Sam3655 wrote: Sun Jan 19, 2025 8:02 am But as Miss Emmitt says,” I like seeing him….”

Her pleasure and the pleasure of our keyholders is why we do it. And there is nothing weird about pleasing the person we love as long as it’s between two consenting adults.
In total agreement with you, Sam.

It was just those 3 words "holds his cock" - it kind of stopped me in my tracks for a moment.
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You're totally right. Stepping back and looking at it from a distance, it is SO freaking weird. Not 'bad-weird' but definitely weird. In my case, I attribute it at least in part to having ADHD. For those who don't know, people with ADHD tend to be... different. Because of our neurodivergent brains, we tend to be into some weirder stuff. Am I saying that engaging in chastity lifestyle is the result of a disorder? ...I really don't know. But as long as it's between two consenting adults, isn't causing any harm, and everyone's having a good time, who really cares?

I have over analyzed this on multiple occasions.

I wonder what percentage of people into chastity have ADHD or similar disorders?
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. I wonder what percentage of people into chastity have ADHD or similar disorders?
Mrs. G and I have had this same conversation. We both know that I have some issues concerning mommy abandonment from early childhood. Over the years many unpleasant memories have surfaced, but only due to her being the right woman for me. I have apologized to the point of exhausting her with “sorry I’m not the man you thought you married.” She has been an angel sent to me from heaven above.

Now with the chastity and discipline thing happening we have figured out that these things keep me on the right track. We wonder sometimes what has really been suppressed. Once again she has been an angel for her willingness to step into an unknown area to help me.

She recently received yet another degree, it is in counseling of all things. She claims Im a good case study. Who would have seen that one coming. Just so weird.

Two quick final notes.

Be careful about what she wants to look at. One day last summer she made me stay completely naked for the whole day, not even a cage. She said she wanted to see it flop around and change in size throughout the day. Total head game for me.

Finally, I had to forgive my mom in person. It was good for the two of us. It was her cancer and me being the only one available for her for several years that made it happen.
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My youngest son is Asperger Autistic, high functioning with a 161 IQ. CS says I am also but have never been tested and as I tell her, there was no Asperger Autism when I was born so I can’t have something that didn’t exist back then. Lol
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Ok since we brought this up...

I engage in chastity while diagnosed with generalized anxiety disorder and I swear it makes it that much more difficult, when it should be "something we do for fun"

She is SUPER happy with "us" and "this" and "where this is taking us", and in end, so am I

It's a real head trip sometimes
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I’m still really new to this experience but I’ve dealt with anxiety in the past as well. I’ve felt the old patterns of being hyper focused on things that leads to bad habits stirring again over the last few months.
After I’ve been caged (just one week so far) my head is quiet. I’m focused on the right things.
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Chosen_Jackal wrote: Sun Jan 19, 2025 12:08 pm I’m still really new to this experience but I’ve dealt with anxiety in the past as well. I’ve felt the old patterns of being hyper focused on things that leads to bad habits stirring again over the last few months.
After I’ve been caged (just one week so far) my head is quiet. I’m focused on the right things.
Big pharma better watch out!
That is awesome!! 😎
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Big pharma better watch out!
I was able to get off my sleep apnea machine last summer. Just woke up fighting it one night, ripped it off and never put it back on.

Interesting thing is I need to sleep caged to feel secure. When I feel secure I relax and rest.

Just don’t let them start medically prescribing chastity or none of us will be able to afford it.
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