Dont push it. The fastest way is to not try to speed things up.
It may take a long time but it will be worth the wait.
When something does happen. Say thing like "that was really hot" or "i really enjoyed you saying/doing that thank ".
Patience is paramount and flattery pays.
[gggxthree] My journey with LadyJ
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Me. "I only got 30 seconds, that's not fair". C. "life's not fair, suck it up" 

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Agree!Mr Pickle wrote: ↑Tue Jan 14, 2025 6:09 pm Dont push it. The fastest way is to not try to speed things up.
It may take a long time but it will be worth the wait.
When something does happen. Say thing like "that was really hot" or "i really enjoyed you saying/doing that thank ".
Patience is paramount and flattery pays.
Take your time. If She is saying things like "well you will" about feeling the new cage on, the other stuff will work out as She gets more and more comfortable. This is what happened with my Wife, almost just as you describe..."into it" but not much "follow through"...
That changes with time
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Thanks gentlemen!!!!
I get caught up in my world..
I guess it's called topping from the bottom, instead of letting it flow, letting it grow...
I get caught up in my world..
I guess it's called topping from the bottom, instead of letting it flow, letting it grow...
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I’ve been thinking about this statement for some time. If I may interject my experience with spanking.. Note, I do like spankings ... but she has the ability to make those hurt if she wanted to, she just doesn't. Thinks from her perspective that it would hurt and that's not what she wants ....
It took Mrs. G quite a while to come around to doing this to me. Lost of conversation and aftercare learning. She also had to overcome the idea of pleasure vs. hitting. Hitting isn’t permitted in our home.
Almost a year now and she has been using the idea of demerits to determine swats. I have hinted about putting a list on the fridge. She hasn’t yet. I’m trying to not top from bottom on this.
For my most recent spanking she took me to the couch instead of over the bed. In her words it wasn’t meant to be arousing but real discipline. So it had to be some where in a common space. This was a giant step for her and my mind has run wild ever since.
One more thing and I’ll leave your journey alone. I have read where some one in our situation got their spanking immediately after ejaculating. They wrote that it was the purest of discipline and and most uncomfortable.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. 

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This happened to me. Yep it's worse after "clarity" hits...much worseTongue+groove wrote: ↑Thu Jan 16, 2025 8:13 am One more thing and I’ll leave your journey alone. I have read where some one in our situation got their spanking immediately after ejaculating. They wrote that it was the purest of discipline and and most uncomfortable.
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At bedtime she grabbed her balls and says I'm too tired for anything else, but I'm in control. Better luck tomorrow and chuckles. Rolled over and was asleep in 2 minutes.
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This morning I got a titty show/ tease. I told her that it's a good thing my cage is metal. She laughed

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. This morning I got a titty show/ tease.
Always love a good tittie tease. Why are they so mesmerizing. Just can’t get enough of them.

She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. 

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Well that was unexpected...
1 of the boys slipped out of the ring and I asked for the key prior to the shower to fix it, she said just remove it and we moved to the bathroom, where she proceeded to tease me and got me erect and said go lay on the bed. Piv and still unlocked an hour later.
1 of the boys slipped out of the ring and I asked for the key prior to the shower to fix it, she said just remove it and we moved to the bathroom, where she proceeded to tease me and got me erect and said go lay on the bed. Piv and still unlocked an hour later.
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Careful with that. This happened to me once but I couldn’t get the other one out. Fortunately we were at home. I was able to waddle to the house while holding the weight of the cage in one hand. The weight put quite a strain on the fella left inside.. she said just remove it
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. 
