Strap-on harness
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Strap-on harness
I'm looking for a strap-on harness to wear while in chastity, so my wife can still experience penetrative sex. I've seen plenty of suggestions on dildoes, but... not so much on harnesses. I guess, no one thought about a man wanting to wear one. I found this one on Amazon. I like that it has an extra hole for my caged cock to stick through. Does anyone have any recomendations?
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Do a search on the board for Vixskin and Terra Firma
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I have a “dp” harness like the one pictured. Worked really well for me. When I’m caged, I can’t get balls and cage through the hole, only the cage, but that will be based on sizes (the hole and you).
I say “dp” harness, as it’s designed for using two dildos at once. Have never tried it for that, lol.
I say “dp” harness, as it’s designed for using two dildos at once. Have never tried it for that, lol.
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I followed Tom’s advice when he answered this question on his Twitter Denial Permanente. Cost more going with a Vixskin but you get what you paid for and the harness he suggested works great. If you aren’t reading his site, you should be as lots of good info and advice.
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Shush, dude. He's very egocentric, and you're just feeding it now. He'll be insufferable.If you aren’t reading his site, you should be as lots of good info and advice
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https://stockroom.com/products/terra-fi ... ness-black
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To my horror, I immediately noticed the same thing with mine. But if you're handy with a needle and thread, I believe I found a very acceptable fix. I just cut from the bottom of the hole, between the two bottom straps, to the bottom. Then I attached some elastic. Very snug and comfortable, and I love the esthetic when it's on me.
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Nice job. I’m always envious of you all who get to do the foxing thing. Oh the things we will do to not have piv sex. 

She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. 

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Well, with any luck we'll be trying it out tomorrow. It's not that I'm trying to avoid PIV (or am I?) it's just that she clearly isn't going to unlock me very often. So, at least this way I can still give her some penetrating goodness.
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UPDATE!
We did it. Even though I was caged the whole time and couldn't feel anything, I was so excited by the whole thing that I almost came. Didn't even think that was possible.
Afterward, I still had to get her off with my hands. She said that she'd definitely do it again but that I need to get her a bigger dildo and it has to vibrate. So, yeah, pretty stoked. The harness itself worked perfectly with my little modification. Kind of on cloud nine right now.
We did it. Even though I was caged the whole time and couldn't feel anything, I was so excited by the whole thing that I almost came. Didn't even think that was possible.
Afterward, I still had to get her off with my hands. She said that she'd definitely do it again but that I need to get her a bigger dildo and it has to vibrate. So, yeah, pretty stoked. The harness itself worked perfectly with my little modification. Kind of on cloud nine right now.
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Fun! Can’t wait to get to that point. I would love a good railing with my man between my legs. And his cage locked below.
New KH introducing Hubs to the possibilities