"Hello world" thread

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Hello, I'm probably one of those eight :) We have been experimenting with chastity with my wife for little over a year now. We are in our forties and been together for 20 years. I've had probably at least 5 different devices during this time and have ended up with a steel cage from House of Denial, which seems to work pretty good for me. Doesn't slip and feels quite comfortable. The longest I've been locked up has been around 3-4 weeks. Lately I've been trying to get my wife more interested in locking me up for longer periods of time. That's one of the reasons I joined the forum. I'm also really into domestic discipline and would love to subdue to my wife in that regard as well. Oh, besides me, my wife also has another (male) partner.
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Hello World! My wife and I have been married for over 15 years and are just beginning to explore some more adventurous options. Until recently our bedroom life has been pretty standard for a married couple. I recently introduced a dildo into the bedroom and proceeded to pleasure her orally while using it in her pussy. I'm very good with my tongue so of course I took her to orgasm.

She knows that my ass is sensitive and afterwards said that maybe I wanted the toy too. Taking that as an expression of interest a few weeks later I bought a strap on harness and a smaller toy - I'm not crazy! She has pegged me once now and used the toy once on its own on me in the past month or so.

She is a successful professional and has always had a strong competitive streak and personality. I am also professional and respect the strong woman that she is. For a period of time I was the stay-at-home Dad and dealt with all the kids school stuff and things, while she was continuing a successful career.

Now that we have explored further into some more alternative activities, I am interested in introducing male chastity into the equation, while is why I, and soon we, are here. I am eager to give her control in this way over me and submit to her desires. So I am checking things out on here to figure out how to prepare to bring this up to her and move into this phase of life. I am not the most endowed guy and am already very good at getting her off with just my mouth.
I recently bought a cage and have tried it for fit - it seems to be the right size and if comfortable. This will be a departure from the more vanilla activities of our marriage to date and I am very excited!

I look forward to learning more about male chastity and how to move forward to being a caged husband. I would be interested to know how to introduce the idea and how to proceed. Any thoughts would be much appreciated! I have a thought to introduce the idea right before she takes a trip and remain caged for her until she returns.
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Hi everyone.

I’m 35, my wife is 46 and we’re both from the Scotland. We’ve been married for 18 months and were together a couple of years before that.

The main reason I’m here is that I have a desire to introduce male chastity. I honestly feel that I can discuss pretty much anything with my wife but I still struggle to introduce this topic. I don’t want to freak her out and I seriously doubt my wife even knows such a thing exists.

She’s relatively vanilla but does enjoy mild tease and denial with me. In a previous casual relationship I was locked and introduced it through watching porn together and discussing chastity. My wife does not watch or enjoy porn at all so that approach is out.

So now I’m here I’m curious to see how others have respectfully introduced chastity to their vanilla wives.
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Welcome, gentlemen...as far as 'introducing' it, have a look through the forums. I'm pretty sure there are more than a few posts on it. After you've had a look around, maybe used the search feature a bit, if you have more questions then ask away.
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Thanks for the tips @TwistedMister.

I’ve already seen a couple of posts and am relieved to see they’re not the ‘surprise your wife by presenting yourself locked up in a device, wearing a collar and lead’ variety. I’ve got research to do to find one that chimes.
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Thanks Twisted. I was thinking to introduce the idea the night before she left on a trip. Then be caged for a few days while gone so she would have some time to consider it.....but the trip got canceled. So now I am thinking of other ways.
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KittensBoyToy wrote: Mon Mar 23, 2020 6:07 pm @Mikejames My wife was also very vanilla a little less than 2 years ago. I brought up chastity by giving her a book on the subject. It took her 4 days to read it and she has kept me locked almost 24/7 since then.

@kittensboytoy. What was the book you shared, if I may ask?
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Welcome to our new members.

coloradonewbies & LockedNick, I found this book, Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders by Lucy Fairbourne on Amazon and gave it to my wife after she discovered I had already purchased a device and was wearing it. This for us would have been a smoother transition if I have purchased the book before the device.

Anyway she told me the book really helped her understand what I was trying to accomplish.

Be open, honest and realize that locking a CD on for any period will change and alter your world. For your Keyholder, it's just another day.

Wearing a CD might be hard (or not ;) ) to keep things "normal" and not overwhelming.

Good luck.
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Thank you, locked4her. I would love to ask some other questions sometime when I am fully verified.
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Hi I’m a dommie and I love chastity I would love to play with woman but I mostly play with men I love how obedient they get and how loving they are
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