"Hello world" thread

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Obmon
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Hi! I'm new and I'm locked up. It's bloody amazing!

Let me go back 2 months. I'm 37 and have been looking my whole life for a woman who can handle how strange I am. 2 months ago, after reading a couple of my posts on Reddit, she creates an account specifically to message me. Within days I'm in love. She turns out to be exactly what I had always looked for. She is in Canada and I am in the UK. But I know where I need to go now... What are the odds..

For most of my adult life I have been into the Hotwife, stag / vixen fetish. I love promiscious woman.. And my new found love is a secret wannabe slut, though she has yet to act on it and is wary of the consequences. Rightly so, and I'm in absolutely no rush. I got all my life with her..

Which brings me to my chastity.. About a few weeks of talking to her, I find myself wanting to submit to her. Emotionally and sexually. The desire became so strong, so fast that it has put my other kinks on the backburner. I introduced her to the concept of a loving female relationship. I have never actually considered this path before at all. Amazing the effect she has on me.

She's a submissive, and I'm normally dominant.. But things are changing. I'm not into humiliation or the slavery type of lifestyle, but I love the idea of giving control over one of the most influential aspects of my person.

And you know what.. I absolutely love this new found direction. My love for her has improved my will to work. It has reduced my depression. And calmed my
anger. Because of her, I stopped watching porn and vastly reduced how often I masturbate. My dreams are more practical. My goals aligned with hers.

Pretty much as soon as I showed her a cock cage and expressed my desire to give over control of when and how I recieve pleasure and release, she buys me one. She isn't as into it yet as I am, but she did it for me, and I can see the idea growing on her. God I love this woman.

I have now been in a https://lockthecock.co.uk/products/silv ... ity-device for exactly 1 week. I am lucky in that it is a perfect fit, even though there is a little under ball pinching, which I relieve with Vaseline when necessary. I have not taken it off except for twice... to clean it, check chafing, and masturbate once with her permission (I gave her control over that even before the cage). Yesterday I sent her by post 2 of the 3 keys, keeping one for emergency only.

I love the feeling that with every step, I think of her. I love knowing I belong to her. I even love the pain because I see it as a symbol of my submission to her. I do not miss the freedom. She is more important.

My testicles are big and hang low. I've only been able to get the middle ring on (45mm), with enough space to push a finger up to the first knuckle. I only wish I can use the smallest ring so it can ride higher on my body.. One day, I will get a custom jail bird.

I do not ever plan on removing it without her permission for the rest of my life. Couldn't be happier.
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Kitten
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MikeInMass wrote: Fri Sep 25, 2020 8:24 pm I appreciate what you’re saying. If I thought there was no hope, I’d not have made it this far. My problems finding a good cage revolve around my lack of endowment and weight issues. Two topics in don’t want to become a point of frustration that would make her give up on the whole idea. I know my wife and how easily she can get frustrated and abandon something that isn’t working.
I apologize. I obviously misunderstood what you were saying. I want to wish you both a happy journey in the world of male chastity.

Have you looked into Holy Trainer? They make a large variety of sizes. I don't know if one of these might work for you or not, but it's always worth a look. If your interested, the link is https://www.holytrainer.com/chastity-li ... y-shop.asp
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etsu_chi
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Hi new here. Just looking for like minded individuals to help me get into the whole chastity thing. Getting my first cage this week.
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LockedBB
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Hello. 28 yo bodybuilder currently self locked for a trial before Locktober. Looking for a online key holder. Only my second day locked and horny as hell
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I am a 50 year old male who serves a domme. She is leading me down the road of chastity. I have tried a couple cages. I am currently chaste for 26 days and have done 30 before. I have been locked now for 12 days solid in my cbx 6000 (I also do mentel chastity, she says no releases and I listen), not super comfortable but doable. Now looking for a better cage to move into true long term chastity.
trying to understand what this means to me, how it will affect me and change me. What it means I will become.
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"Hello world"

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Hello all,
I've been into chastity since high school, so 20+ years now. My first device was a home made "trapped ball" devise made from an erector set piece for the testie ring, and a sink drain pipe for the tube. In 2001 i got a PA so that I could get a Lori's tube (which I still use on occasion) in 2010 I made a trip to Germany and was fitted for a Latowski belt. It's an amazing piece of work, however does not breath well so I'm unable to wear it for any extended time. My most used belt now is a home made full belt of my own design.


-Chaos
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A warm Texas HOWDY to @Obmon, @etsu_chi, @LockedBB, @Happeningfish, and @chaosdemon42. Grab a chair and sit a spell!
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acronymboy
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Hello Chastity Forum,

My name is Nick and at the time I am writing this, I am currently in Locktober 2020. I'm an average run-of-the-mill guy with a propensity to be a back-of-the-crowd kinda guy at the same time. LOL As far as chastity goes, I can't really place a finger on what it is about being locked up that appeals to me. But I do know that it goes right along with submission and surrender ... at least for me.

If I had thought ahead a bit more than just in the last week of September, I might have found a keyholder for Locktober. But I went through with it anyway.

This site is easy to use and well laid out. I'm very happy that I found it and I look forward to what I will get from it as well as what I can contribute to it.
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Hello looking for advice on if device to to tight
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Re: "Hello world" thread

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@acronymboy Welcome! Sounds like this was a last minute decision for you to be locked. What was it that made you decided to do it now and for the whole month? A lot of guys gradually build up the length of time. It is doable being self-locked. I’ve been doing it for the last 2 years. Best of luck with the journey!!!
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