"Hello world" thread

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Becoming His Thumpee
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Hello World

So...here I am in a place I never thought I'd be. I am a gay man coming up on the big 60 and I recently met a gentleman that I am very attracted to, and the thought has crossed my mind that he may be the one to go the distance with. He has one little idiosyncrasy (to be read, fetish), locking his sex partners in chastity. As he described him self...."Total top...I've no use or interest in your dick except to lock it away. My only interest is your ass". I have never really thought one way or the otber abt it, but now I am watching every piece of chastity porn I can find. Also...I have no problem strickly being a bottom...I have always enjoyed it. Anyway...been doing my research and reading anythi g and everything and the eroticism of it is starting to catch fire in me. Btw...this would be a life style choice...24/7 he'd want me locked. He is a bit of a DOM. My hesitancy is i have trouble picturing a sex life without an orgasm...I am aftraid it would be massive frustration. He says it woukd be the opposite in time...he has an enormous labido and constantly wants sex..so I am not sure I'd have time to get frustrated. So, I am on here to read up on what everyone has to say and gain information and hopefully maybe connect with somone who's been in a similar situation. Does one indeed evolve into accepting and learning to love those circumstances.?
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Hello all JLai here.
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Becoming His Thumpee wrote: Sat Sep 19, 2020 8:48 pm ...My hesitancy is i have trouble picturing a sex life without an orgasm...I am aftraid it would be massive frustration. He says it woukd be the opposite in time...he has an enormous labido and constantly wants sex..so I am not sure I'd have time to get frustrated...
How do you think that would work out for you? Don't you think you would want to get your rocks off once in a while? Having no previous experience with device enforced chastity, do you think you really want to go from 0 to permanently locked all in one go? Personally, I have no idea how it would be, but could you handle getting your ass plowed all the time while your dick remains caged and gets no attention at all?

Seems to me that you might want to approach this idea just a little more slowly, with a little negotiation. It shouldn't be all about one and nothing for the other. If your needs aren't getting met too, then I don't see how it would work out very well in the long run.
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Hello World,

I’ve been self-locked for most of the last 2 yrs. My 2nd anniversary was on Sept 18. I started because I couldn’t stop masturbating and watching porn. It was out of control. I was staying up late, getting up in the middle of the night or early in the morning to do it, and doing it at work. As a result I wasn’t being responsible to myself or family, nor doing the things I needed to do. Just couldn't take it anymore. So in a draconian move I went to a local adult store, bought a cage, and sat in the parking lot locking myself up. The ultimate behavior modification approach.

These last 2yrs have been a learning experience. While it’s definitely helped me control my behavior, I’ve also learned I enjoy being locked. It’s a part of me now. I’d like to further explore this and learn from others. Hopefully my experiences will be of value to others too. Thanks, Caged4Good!
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Welcome to @JLai and @Becoming His Thumpee! @Becoming His Thumpee, I'll second the advice you already read. Think long and hard before agreeing to total lock up.
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Hello all,

This is Al from Southern California, 37, married for 19 years now and happily caged (on and off) for the last 3 or 4 years. KH/wife really enjoys controlling me, so much that there’s already been talks about going permanently 🤔
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Hello all,

BB and I have been together over eight years now, although I have known him over twenty years. I have been in charge of his orgasms for probably the last six of those years, on the honour system, but after a bit of discussion recently finally ordered him a device. We have talked about it for years but the time just felt right - particularly as we don’t live together, and recent lockdown and restrictions on seeing each other has focused our minds a bit.

Although still waiting for the device to arrive, could I have access to the Keyholders area please?
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Good to see you @BBsMS I hope you'll enjoy the forum.
I've known her for a few years, I do love her evil mind. :o
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Welcome to our world @au831209 and @BBsMS. @BBsMS, is this a joint account that you both will be using? If it is, you may have to set up another account for one of you as we mortals are not allowed to see what the Goddesses write in the keyholders area. :)
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Hello, no, the account is just for me. BB doesn’t really do social media, although I might try and talk him into it once he is experiencing being locked.
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