"Hello world" thread

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Hussman767
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Hello my wife/keyholder and I are relatively new to male chastity.
This is just our second week and the first weekend that I have been left unsupervised for a few days.

We started with a “beginner” cage that was way too big but have now gotten a cage that fits.

She wears the key around her neck proudly.

Any advice for a newbie is appreciated.

Thanks!
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Hello, completely new to chastity, however, I've been have been having fantasies about it for quite some time.
We have tried orgasm control before, but after three weeks, it became unbearable, so we'll try chastity next.
Neither I nor the wife really know what we're doing so, any help is greatly appreciated.
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@Hussman767 and @locked Welcome and, since your wives both seem to be on board, the best advice I would give is to pay attention to how you are doing. Trying to prove you are a tough guy and pushing through pain is dumb. Take your time and adjust to wearing a cage slowly.
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Hussman767 wrote:
Sat Feb 29, 2020 1:21 pm
Any advice for a newbie is appreciated.
Welcome to the forums and the world of chastity. Does your wife plan to join as a keyholder?

The best advice I can offer is something I was told when we were newbies a short 1-1/2 yr ago.
Chastity is on your mind 24/7, but it's just another day for her.
She has a myriad of other things on her mind, so there will be times when you'll feel ignored ... but please remember that she's not ignoring you, it's just that your chastity isn't her top priority.
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lockod wrote:
Sun Mar 01, 2020 1:10 am
Neither I nor the wife really know what we're doing so, any help is greatly appreciated.
Welcome @lockod! The forums is a greaīt place for newbies because chastity is discussed here in plain language, without all of the kink hype that other sites have. Does your wife plan to join us as your keyholder?

There are a ton of threads with good information and advice for you. If your wife joins, she can request to be a keyholder. The Keyholders Hangout is a place just for us ... the chaste members don't have access to the hangout and can't see anything written. When we were brand new to chastity I received some valuable information and advice in there. She would have access to everything.

I hope this made sense and look forward to reading about y'alls progress. I'm always open to questions and willing to share our journey.
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Thank you @Kitten
I will talk to her about joining as a keyholder.
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Hi All,
I'm a gay male switch - locked guy and Keyholder. Currently don't have a KH myself, until then I'm self locked on and off.
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Hello world... I’m excited to be here. I’m married with two kids. I am not currently in chastity but I think about it a lot. My wife is supportive and aware of my desire to be locked... but she needs some warmup time. It was a huge relief to tell her
I grew up very religious and so I suppressed myself sexually until I was married. Then I “took the genie out of the bottle” so to speak and have become obsessed with sex. Interestingly though- I don’t do pornography or masturbation (I’m just not comfortable with it)... which sometimes makes me feel like a weirdo in the chastity community. For me chastity is about giving control to my wife so that I feel... safe I guess? And I also would love to have her invested in my sexuality. I’m open to thoughts and advice. Thanks all
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Welcome to thr forums @Worrier and @Kex ! If you like the forums half as much as i do ... you'll love it here.
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Hey everyone!

I'm a Danish guy into heaps of stuff but really got the hots for submission and power transfer. I am so excited that my Daddy just got me my first cage. A knock off steel v2 holy trainer. I've been fantasizing about being in chastity for ages. Now finally, my journey begins
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