"Hello world" thread

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Thank you for the warm welcome.
It is great to get such good advice with the first comments. If I am honest, when I started playing with chastity devices, it was to satisfy my fantasy of being controlled and denied. Ultimately, it was MY fantasy, not hers. All your comments make the point that you can easily fool yourself by serving yourself, not her.
I am not sure how it will go from here. I am locked in a cage and she has the key (I do have a sealed key for emergencies) but since we are separated by the Atlantic ocean, it can only serve as a symbol of our love and trust. What is in it for her can, for the most part, only come true once we live together again. So in this regard, we will be at the very begining of exploring this life style, despite me being caged for months. I am trying to say that my experience of this time will be very different than hers and that I probably have built up expectations, which is ultimately selfish. It is funny as it is sad that being caged has made me aware that I can be quite selfish and unattentive, and that I have to do much better for our relationship to thrive. In this regard, even if we don’t pursue chastity, I have benefitted in totally unexpected ways from having my dick locked up in a little plastic device.
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Hello world (or for those of you of an IT bent printf("Hello, World!");)

I have been playing with self-chastity for some time (when previously single and when on business trips now I am in a relationship) but finally confessed and introduced my OH to it 5 days ago.

Since then I have been happily locked and though she does not wear the key, it (they) are hidden away somewhere only she knows.

I think she is still getting to terms with it in a number of ways but, baby steps and all that.
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@chrissiej Welcome. Don't push and let her absorb it in her own good time.
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@chrissiej

Welcome to the Forums! Your OH needs to have time to learn about male chastity and absorb the concept of this lifestyle. Five days after KBT introduced the subject to me and told me about the Forums I registered as a member & keyholder. I learned a tremendous amount by reading and asking questions. We're now just over 4 months into chastity and loving it!
I think she is still getting to terms with it in a number of ways but, baby steps and all that.
Baby steps is definitely the way to proceed. The book I was given when introduced to chastity stated that chastity is on your mind all the time, but it's just another day for her. These words put the whole concept of male chastity into a neat little nutshell. Have patience with her and let her proceed at her own pace.
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Thanks both.
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Hello World!!

Where to begin? Browsing through Tumblr I always saw some pictures of guys locked up. It sparked my curiosity which then turned into me driving by a sex shop several times working up enough guts to go in. I ended up buying a CB-6000. I tried it on a few times, wore it around then put it away. It wasn't until just recently when I saw a bunch of guys doing Locktober that I got back into it. Over the last few weeks I've been wearing the cage off and on. The last few days however, I've been locked unless I was in the shower. So now, here I am. Looking for other like minded people to chat with. :D
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@gotwang Welcome! You will find everything her from guys that 'play' with chastity to spice up their sex lives to those of us for whom it is a lifestyle. Are you self locked or do you have a keyholder?
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Hello world. I'm a real person with a locked up penis. At the moment I am self chastised. My wife is slowing coming around to the idea. She says it looks like it hurts with the way the skin comes through the cage when it tries to get hard. So I got a plastic one that's see through. She likes the look of that better. I had to modify it some to fit me better. And I have just a bolt holding it together till I can get a better lock. I didnt trust the lock that came with it. Lol. It got stuck trying it out before I put it on. When I get a new lock, I'll give her the keys to my orgasm. We are newly married. Been married for 5 months. And loving it.
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Welcome to the community @Bittererbobdob. Small padlocks made by Brinks and Master are available at any home improvement store as well as Walmart. Let her absorb the information on chastity at her own pace.
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@gotwang and @Bittererbobdob
Welcome to the forums!
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