"Hello world" thread

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Chastityat60
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Re: "Hello world" thread

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smfang wrote: Thu Jul 01, 2021 11:03 pm
WifeIsVanilla wrote: Thu Jul 01, 2021 6:17 am
smfang wrote: Wed Jun 30, 2021 4:47 pm Hello,

I am a frustrated chastity wannabe in my mid 60's. My wife of 15 years knows about my interest in male chastity. On rare occasion she gets into it. Other times she will put up with me self-locking, but clearly doesn't get it. (I put the key in a time-released box to make it somewhat real for myself.) I wish that she would take charge of my cock and be a tease to get her way. I have largely given up hope that this will ever happen. I am joining this forum hoping to get some vicarious thrill from other people's experiences and in the distant hope that some comments will suggest an approach that will lead to my wife taking a more active role in my chastity fantasies.
Your situation is VERY similar to mine except VanillaWife never "gets into it."

You might get some ideas from reading my Journey. They have certainly not converted VW, but they have given me a great deal more fun / enjoyment than I could have expected given my situation.
Thanks for the suggestion.
Your situation is very similar to mine also where my wife is also very vanilla.. and cannot see the point to any of this. This is my third attempt of maybe starting a self locking program that will match our love making times..whenever they maybe..then back into the cage. I too look at the stories and wish my wife would agree even to just be the key holder till our next time together.. That will probably never happen , so, I too am considering a lockable key box.
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Queen Alison I
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Re: "Hello world" thread

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Hello Everyone.

This is my first 'kinky' online forum. I've been my husband's off-and-on keyholder for several years but we've decided to get more serious about it. He's been a lurker here and suggested I join this forum because 'it's not a stupid jerk-off site' that would give me cold feet about chastity. I read a few posts and the "for some version of Vanilla" one was reassuring. The one time I tried looking up information about chastity years ago I found a guy wearing a maid uniform and it took my husband a couple of years to talk me into being his keyholder again. And the thread about how many devices, wow, I thought my hubby was bad, but he only has three (we're thinking of ordering a 4th).

So here I am. I'm mumble-mumble years old, been married for over twenty years and goofing around with chastity for about 10. But I don't feel like I really know what I'm doing with it, so I'm hoping to learn from some other keyholders here. My husband told me there's a secret group for that. I like belonging to secret groups!
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by sominus »

Mornin’ alll…

Introverted Texan here… I’ve always been interested in chastity play/T&D, and stumbled on this board!

-Michael
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FussKuss
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Re: "Hello world" thread

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Hello Everyone.

i am a long time chastity lover from austria but i never really took it more serious than locking myself up every now and then.
but for a some weeks now i have an online keyholder (in the US so the 6h time difference is sometimes a real downer), so i am locked up most of the time now. so it turned from something i dabble in, into something that is a constant in my life now.

so i thought it would make sense to be more active in the community and see what others do and what their experiences are :)

i am wearing a X-Lock Cobra cage and it is surprisingly comfortable, especially to my CB-6000 i used before that.

so, yeah. Hello everyone :)
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Nekidntahiti
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Re: "Hello world" thread

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Hey all,

Been interested in chastity for a few years and have a CB6000 but just got sizing rings to measure for a MM Jailbird. Trying to grab as much info as possible to help ensure proper measurements.
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Chastitypipe
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Re: "Hello world" thread

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Hi All,

Great to find this site. I’m a newbie locked today for the first time. My boyfriend has talked about chastity continuously for years.
We recently decided to give it a try and after experimenting for a couple of hours at a time I agreed to be locked for a longer period last night. To put me to the test he has gone off camping for the night leaving me alone and locked. A few issues with soreness but some Vaseline has done the trick.
I find myself climbing the walls with frustration waiting until he gets back tomorrow.
Any tips on how to cope with the feeling of frustration.
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cocomctavish
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by cocomctavish »

Hello world.

My wife (keyholder) and I have only been into chastity for a short time (6 months) but we are both enjoying the experience.

We have been through the same experience as most and have bought several devices before eventually purchasing a metal device.

We use chaster and my wife creates locks for me and upon completion of each lock which increases time on every lock and then she unlocks me and treats me to some form of sexual contact which usually involves a hand job to a orgasm which is sometimes ruined. In the very rare occasion that I am allowed any PIV its to allow her to orgasm before she literally tells me to get out of her and get off her and locks me back up. Most sexual contact is with me locked up performing oral sex on her which is incredibly hot for me.

Thanks for reading.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by TwistedMister »

Welcome to the forum, folks.
Any tips on how to cope with the feeling of frustration?
Get used to it and learn to enjoy it.
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LeaT
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Re: "Hello world" thread

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Hey all,

usually I'm around on reddit - where I just found this forum. I'm experimenting with chastity already for a few years, currently trying to get my partner involved.

Lea
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WifeIsVanilla
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Re: "Hello world" thread

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Chastitypipe wrote: Sun Jul 04, 2021 7:25 am
I find myself climbing the walls with frustration waiting until he gets back tomorrow.
Any tips on how to cope with the feeling of frustration.
Lean into it. Embrace it. Enjoy it.
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Have worn: Curve & CB 6000s. Both broke, were repaired, broke, were repaired and then broke beyond repair.
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