"Hello world" thread

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WifeIsVanilla
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subjunct_excess wrote: Thu Dec 09, 2021 6:40 pm Hello everyone.
I'm a little nervous, but having a place to talk about things will help me get out of the headspace I've been in where I'm some sort of delinquent for wanting to ensure my chastity.

I'm a male from the United States in a relationship with A. We've recently agreed on chastity for a number of reasons, but we're both very inexperienced so I'm looking for the wisdom of a well-spoken group. Thank you for the space to chat!
You came to the right place.

Welcome.
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Newbeginning84
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Re: "Hello world" thread

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Hello all
Married for 6 years and just opened up to my wife about my desires.
The passion on our relationship had been going down the last years and my wife were unhappy about it. Also I.
I work for months away from home without chance to come home. So we had a talk online.
This is what happened.

For some reason she asked me to buy a sextoy for her. I was really confused as to what kind of toy she wanted.
I was afraid of what to choose, I didn't want her to think I was a pervert. Ended up asking her and she said that she was curious to what kind of toy I wanted. I suggested just like a dildo with suction cub in a beautiful color. She send me pictures of strapless dildo for pegging.
My heart was racing because I would actually love to try this, but I was afraid to admit that I wanted this. Whoever the conversation ended up in a confession from my side where she would ask and give me a opportunity to tell the truth. She wanted to know all my desires. Did I like men? did I like shemales? Did I want to be fucked by a man? What porn do I watch? Do I masturbate in home? Do I like to be humiliated?
Lot's of question answered and I can honestly say I told her everything. This includes buying a chastity cage and her locking me up.
So far I have been really lucky, she is accepting and we have long talks about our fantasies and she is using toys to play with herself sending me pictures. I'm so excited that she is turned on by all of this and she haven't run away after my complete confession. It's a huge relief and I'm so excited to come home to her and live out my true desires.

I've introduced her to chastity cages and her first response were that she would lock me up when I'm going away on job so she know I'm not cheating on her.
I bought a HT v4 and she have send me pictures of it. I can't wait to get started. I've always dreamed of her dominating me and controlling me.
I don't know where this all is headed, but seems we are out for a great start.

However she still wants a serious conversation with me when I arrive home, and I no sex without condom until I've been tested for STDs. ( Trust is fine but checking is better seems to be her point of view )
I'm hoping the cage fits me. I've already thought of getting a PA just for the purpose of a more secure cage.

Nice to meet you all!
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Msravenspirit21
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Re: "Hello world" thread

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Hello World,

My guy and myself have been active in BDSM and the lifestyle for over 7 years. We have been adding tools to our play and have just recently choose a chastity. In order to gain maximum effectiveness we decided to join a forum that has experienced and active users of this specific tool. We look forward to sharing our personal journey in a safe place such as this.
J & C
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Leaking_Laura
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Re: "Hello world" thread

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Hello everyone,

Im a 33 year old BDSM enthousiast and me and my gf have gotten into chastity play a while ago. I found this forum by accident while searching for information about cages etc. It's lovely to see there is such a large community on chastity play :-).

Sincerely,
Laura.
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Driver X
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Re: "Hello world" thread

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Hello world, not a robot, just a 50 year old guy from Michigan USA. My wife and I "played" with some light chastity on and off over the course several months a couple years ago but have done nothing with it since. I'm not going into all the details of it in a general hello thread, but recently she has made hints that I may be going back into the cage on a more permanent basis. I think she may have already decided on her New Year's resolution, we shall know soon enough. Anyways, I'm going to lurk around here and see what's going on and maybe ask some of you with more experience a question or two along the way. Thanks for letting me join.
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19max74
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Re: "Hello world" thread

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Hello world!
New from Italy, hoping to find bere some new food ideas to our slifestyle!
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WifeIsVanilla
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Re: "Hello world" thread

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Driver X wrote: Sat Dec 18, 2021 1:39 am Hello world, not a robot, just a 50 year old guy from Michigan USA. My wife and I "played" with some light chastity on and off over the course several months a couple years ago but have done nothing with it since. I'm not going into all the details of it in a general hello thread, but recently she has made hints that I may be going back into the cage on a more permanent basis. I think she may have already decided on her New Year's resolution, we shall know soon enough. Anyways, I'm going to lurk around here and see what's going on and maybe ask some of you with more experience a question or two along the way. Thanks for letting me join.
When I first joined, I started by working each of the forums back further and further. There is a wealth of information there.
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Grower
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Re: "Hello world" thread

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Hello all:
I am in a committed relationship with my wife. I love my wife and wish to make sure that she is always happy. We are at a point in our life where she is not as interested in sex and sexual activities as I am. I have accepted it and I am oK with it, however, I have had great difficulty in attempting in curbing my sexual desires. Unfortunately, my desires often lead me to masturbating. I feel much guilt after masturbating as I would very much like to limit my feelings of orgasmic pleasure to only times that I am with my wife. As crazy as it sounds, I believe that those shared pleasure/experience brings us closer together. Here is the rub (pun intended - bad dad joke…I am sorry). I want to eliminate my ability to masturbate when the desire arises. Thus the thought of a chastity device for me. My wife is not exactly on board with this, but she is an open minded gal. We have had bedroom fun with chastity devices in the past. I have a cheap plastic device and two Chinese metal ones I got from eBay. The metal ones were mainly a cheap way to check for proper fitting. My biggest problem that I am looking for a solution for is that I am a grower. I can find cages that fit comfortably when I am flaccid, but when I get an erection, all of the cages push forward with my erection and the base of the cage yanks my balls forward. This yanking of my balls hurts horribly. It also happens multiple times at night when I have nocternal erections when I sleep (who knew I get hard so many times when I am unconscious)

I wanted to get on this form to be a part of a community and to seek advice/guidance as I attempt to embark on this journey. I have read the forum a lot in the past and I wanted to get more involved. Thank you in advance for your time.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

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Welcome to the forum Grower. You may need to go with a smaller device. I'm a grower too, but also a bit masochistic so the discomfort of having a cage that allows for a bit of growth is not a deal-breaker.
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whitehoseman
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Re: "Hello world" thread

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Hello World
My hopefully soon to be keyhole wife and I are Midwest USA. We are new to chastity and have lots of questions and hopefully we can find answers to some of those here.
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