"Hello world" thread

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AJandDL
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Re: "Hello world" thread

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Takes Deep Breath.
So hi, we're Andy and Debs from the UK (I'm Andy, shes in work but I have her permission to post here). We've been dating for 10 months, engaged for 2 and due to get married in a few years. Started off totally vanilla but over the past 8 weeks thiings have totally changed between us. We both liked a little sub and dom stuff as our relationship has grown (she once asked me to ask for her permission to orgasm) and we've done a few things since.

The thing is, I really enjoy asking and liked it even more when she wouldn't let me. So I did what everyone does and went on the web (in private browsing because yano, my kids might see and came across chastity. We talked about it and she totally changed, she really got excited by the idea so we ordered our first cage (it was terrible, way too small, way too tight). But since I put it on, Debs told me she wasn't really into the submissive thing and we made love (kind of).

So I've now changed cages (far from perfect, a little too long so I can kind of get hard then its really uncomfortable and pinchy) but I've been locked for a week pretty much full time. I was let out on Sunday for an hour and did orgasm, but it was after she stopped playing and I can't say it felt well real..

I'm next due for a release on Thursday and we're really enjoying this change in our relationship. The things are.

1. Are any cages actually comfy all of the time, I'm on to my 3rd and its costing me a fortune
2. How do we not just talk about chastity and me being submissive all of the time (its took over from this time last week). I do miss some of our vanilla chats, cuddles, intimate time
3. How do I stop the struggle between strong alpha male (proud dad, 6ft2 gym a lot) and allow this submissive side to blossom more. I think its guilt, i can't tell really this is all so new to me.
4. Am I ready for Locktober (she googled this one) Debs really wants me to remain locked for a month for her, I really want to do this, but this cage doesnt seem right to. Nightimes are really painful when I get "up" in the middle of the night and its really disrupting my sleep.

Thanks for reading and any help you can provide.
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Daves
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Hi there, I'm not yet sure if I'm in the right place or not. By the way I'm David 34 Years old and chaste... but this is juste my choice, so I'm not even sure if I'm welcome here.

By the way, nice to meet you!
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WifeIsVanilla
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Daves wrote: Thu Sep 30, 2021 7:17 pm Hi there, I'm not yet sure if I'm in the right place or not. By the way I'm David 34 Years old and chaste... but this is juste my choice, so I'm not even sure if I'm welcome here.

By the way, nice to meet you!
You may not be in the majority at there forums, but you do have a lot of company here, including me. So. . . WELCOME!
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cdkas01
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Hello world, cdkas01 here, 40 y, it's 5 days locked since my last release, and i am new here, i have many devices
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stagehorse
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I am a single male and will be turning 50 this year. I wasn't having much luck in the dating world since my early 30's and then became more interested in porn than trying to bother with finding a real partner. Now I've been into self locking in cages for the past 10 years or so. For me it makes watching porn more enjoyable. It would be nice to find a woman to share my interests with but have had no luck with that. So I just do me for now.
My longest lock up was 37 days and my goal is 6 weeks.
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prissy
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Hey everyone!
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jaly
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New here

My CB6000S arrived today after trying out a cheaper one from Alibaba a few weeks ago.

I have ADHD and want to try chasity to increase my concentration, and avoid "distractions" while working from home
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LOCKED HUSBAND
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jaly wrote: Wed Oct 06, 2021 1:37 pm New here

My CB6000S arrived today after trying out a cheaper one from Alibaba a few weeks ago.

I have ADHD and want to try chasity to increase my concentration, and avoid "distractions" while working from home
You may find yourself more distracted than before , Hope you don't have access to keys . 🤣
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mgablea
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Just saying Hi. Yes I am real. I play alone because my wife gets freaked out when I suggest anything "perverted" until it becomes her idea and she is ready to play.
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mgablea wrote: Thu Oct 07, 2021 9:24 am Just saying Hi. Yes I am real. I play alone because my wife gets freaked out when I suggest anything "perverted" until it becomes her idea and she is ready to play.
Welcome to the forum.

Yes, that seems to be a peculiarity of a lot of people, they don't want anything to change unless it's *their* idea, and they will firmly resist any such change that someone tries to 'force' on them. They have to chew on it for a while, swallow it and digest it until it becomes a part of them...
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