"Hello world" thread

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Hi, after years of fantasising I finally told my wife about my desire to be locked in a chastity cage. I showed her some of the stories I've put on the internet. She was shocked at first but pleased that we were at long last doing something sexy. Before the kids were born she used to spank me and dominate me. We weren't attracted to clubs or dungeons and she dressed in tweedy skirt suits and boots like an old fashioned strict and sexually frustrated wife (which she is).
She's always been reluctant to indulge my desire for her to tell me about her previous lovers: she had a last weekend of sex with one just before we got married but felt guilty about it. Sometimes she lets things slip that excite my submissive cuckold inclinations.
Anyway, the kids are grown up now and have left home.
She admitted that she still has powerful sexual urges and fantasies about sex with other men; 'sometimes very shocking'. She doesn't want them to become real because she doesn't want to fall in love with someone else. She suggested that we buy a dildo and play out my cuckold fantasies with her fantasies. She is more than happy to play the dominatrix if only to be able to express her feelings about my inadequacies and get me to do what I'm told. (my submissive role play may involve housework, DIY and losing weight more than anything sexy!)
She said I should buy a cock cage if I like as long as she gets to buy a riding crop and some boots. I think she's hoping that it will lead to us having sex.
So last night I ordered a Pink Holy Trainer V3 Nub Chastity Device. I chose a small one because I'm small.
Now I'm all a tremble.
Sorry if I've gone on and told you all too much.
I'll let you know how we get on.
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Hello! My wife has desired to be my KH for some time, however, we discovered the device didn’t fit well given all the extra weight I was carrying. I’ve since dropped some much needed weight and the holy trainer fits wonderfully. The cage was locked back on August 29, it’s been off for about 10 hours since then, once to enjoy sex with her and for 45 minutes to get sugared. Otherwise, the cage has become a part of my reality of late. Glad to no longer be a lurker and registered to become part of the board!
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8 year couple. Lazy lovers.

Tried a chastity cage and sex became frequent, and lengthier. I (husband) enjoyed servicing, in and out of the bedroom. We talked of humiliation, possible watersports, cuckolding and other extensions of the fetish. Denial was short-lived, as wife has a strong desire for creampies. After a few months wife stated she no longer wanted to play as she "doesn't like making the decisions". I can accept that, however, at work I've been 'in charge' for the greater part of twenty years and all I really want is to shut down and be told what to do for a while.

Since her admission, sex has petered back down to lazy lover status(once a month-ish). I have daily fantasies of edging, chastity, ruined orgasms and the like. I'm not saying I don't enjoy the ejaculation, I just prefer the denial of ejaculation, the forced servicing, the humiliation that much more.

Seeking guidance, ideas, any like experiences, to see if there is a compromise to keep us both happy. We understand cuckolding would do this but, we are rather worried that this is a fantasy that could irreparably change our relationship. Also Covid, social ineptitude, and general lackluster options presented online have not helped in the search.
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I'm honestly interested to know if chastity is linked to having a small penis and not being able to satisfy one's wife/partner.
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Last night I made a nice dinner and found a film that we could watch: 'Maitrisse', a French sexy dominatrix film with a young handsome Gerard Depardieu. My wife was tired from work so she had a bath but didn't want me to rub her feet or anything.
She liked the food but found the film a bit disturbing. It wasn't a good time to talk about cock cages and being whipped or anything like that. So I made her sandwiches for her lunch the next day and she went to bed early.
I washed the dishes and went to bed. We have a bedroom each. She calls me to hers when she wants me,
A post office delivery note came today. I think it's my cage.
I don't know what to think or do any more.
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2small-dave wrote: Sun Sep 12, 2021 5:08 pm I'm honestly interested to know if chastity is linked to having a small penis and not being able to satisfy one's wife/partner.
Hi - now that you've made your introduction, feel free to post your questions and concerns in a new thread.
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Hello!
I have known of this site for more than a few years. I am married to a former pro-Domme. Our relationship did not start with a D/S dynamic. I think it began because we were both two people who have had more than our fair share of partners, and sexual experiences we were looking for a new way to find a form of intimacy that was genuinely “new” to both of us. That’s not to say that my wife wasn’t well versed in the world of chastity play - but we ended up finding our way to our own “normal”, and it feels uniquely ours. Anyway, my details, I am in a custom metal device, with a PA, my keys live in a safety deposit box, and my wife has the only keys to the bank box hidden away. In the past three years my device has been off a total of 6 times for a total of 43 accumulative minutes, and only for security screenings - my doctor knows about my device and it has not interfered with any medical needs. My wife thinks of it as mechanical castration and that my caged cock is there solely for her torment. We have a cock cabinet, with 11 different strap-on compatible dildos that my wife will choose for me to use when we fuck. I have a leather harness that works great for reverse-pegging. I have no doubt that some of the folks on here have interacted or know my wife’s former professional persona, but, I ask that we keep our anonymity. I am on here for me. My wife and I are no longer associated with the sex industry in any way and we are happier for it each day that passes. Cheers! And thanks you to all who keep this forum running. I look forward to participating.
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I have a leather harness that works great for reverse-pegging.
I have been trying to get this known as "foxing", because "reverse pegging" isn't quite correct. Besides, why should Dan Savage get all the opportunities?

Anyhow, it's funny that she thinks of it as castration. To me, castration actually functions to reduce one's sex drive. That's definitely not what has happened on my end. 😉

I'm sure you'll have plenty to chat about here.
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Tom Allen wrote: Mon Sep 13, 2021 12:08 pm
I have a leather harness that works great for reverse-pegging.
I have been trying to get this known as "foxing", because "reverse pegging" isn't quite correct.
You know, your are right… I think that we first came to know it as “foxing” or ‘fauxing” so keep up your campaign, it’s working! Between my wife and I, we just call it “sex” or any other common term for P-in-V action.
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Between my wife and I, we just call it “sex” or any other common term for P-in-V action.
LOL, my wife and I just call it "sex" now ourselves, because that's the only way we do it now. 😂
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