"Hello world" thread

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Erick1928
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So hi everyone I'm here to prove I'm not a bot haha xD
I'm not very good at introductions so please forgive me Senpai. I made a account to learn more about chastity, my online m8stress told me to make a account and try to win that vice chastity cage that's going on since I'm a poor college student (21)who owns a cheap shitty cage, and to learn more about chastity, since I'm a super mega noobie to chastity and everything with BDSM l. So please don't delete my account

P.S I play Overwatch on PC so hmu if you wanna do Quick play
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I am not a spammer but a professional man in my late 30s married with children and exploring male chastity with my very shy, conservative, reluctant and also professional wife, we are both physicians. We are looking for advice as we slowly explore make chastity which I am pushing for and she is adjusting to the idea and trying to consider it. I found this forum and looking for advice on how to introduce her and help her discover how she really feels about it. She is absolutely turned off by all pornography and watching it or mentioning anything that might be considered mildly kinky sends her running the other direction fast.
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healthpm wrote:...She is absolutely turned off by all pornography and watching it or mentioning anything that might be considered mildly kinky sends her running the other direction fast.
Sounds like you have a tough row to hoe if she's that squeamish about sex. I'm not sure how much we'll be able to help, but welcome to the forum anyway.
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If I'm a bot I'm a bot with very blue balls. Longest I've timed going without an O so far is 72 days but it's probably been longer. Chastity is relatively new and I love it. Still searching for the right device and despite spending more than is sensible on brand devices my Chinese knock-off cb-6000 is till my fave.
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Hi

What I have been hoping to find is somewhere to discuss in a sensible way the issues facing me as someone very new to the idea. This site seems more "serious" than some others,

I am married - have been for over thirty years - and love my wife very much and want to explore this with her. I also know - or think I know - what I find exciting about the idea of chastity. I am prepared to be surprised though.

I want to explore two areas initially.

1. The practical. Getting a good fit. Hygiene etc. I like the look of the devices sold by "red chilli" and am prepared to spend the right amount to get something that works, is comfortable, is discrete under clothing, looks good and is hygienic.

2. The emotional. I don't want to scare my wife! I am treading very carefully at the moment but we have started to open up about what we each like sexually so am hopeful.

Anyway I hope this is sufficient to pass moderation.

ER
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Hey ER -

You might want to consider buying one of the several Keyholder books available on Amazon. Some people have good things to say about Lucy Fairborne, others prefer Sarah Jameson, and others like Ivey Green.

Here's a sampling:

https://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss ... +keyholder
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Thanks Tom for the prompt response. Bought & read the Lucy Fairborne book last night on kindle - almost perfect for my needs. A lot of the stuff on amazon is really not appropriate - this seems much more "matter of fact".

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That's why we're here - as an alternative to some of the more, umm, extreme BDSM stuff.
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Hello, first post on this forum.

I've been looking into / considering chastity for something like a year and a half, haven't really kept track. I likely have different goals than many of the members. So I'd like to ask a few questions, and to start a blog on the "journey" forum soon.

I'll throw out my main goal here and post other questions later. Basically I want to stop masturbating. Sounds so incredibly weird to be posting this in an online forum, but I think I came to the right place, a male chastity forum! So anyway my wife and I have sex very predictably once a week on the weekend. Trouble is I can't keep from jacking off after that usually something like M, T, W, maybe R, and then wait for the weekend; I hate it, I want all my orgasms to be with my wife. I self-tried a cheap chinese device maybe 6 or 8 months ago. I discovered that it was way to easy to escape. Then tried a vice (similar to a CB but with a vice feature that is supposed to prevent pullout). That was pretty easy to escape too. Very recently I went to tetherproducts.com and paired that with the vice. So far completely inescapable; awesome - very important considering my goals (I would cheat if I could). Right now I'm self testing, mainly for fit and wearability. Not sure on that part yet, we'll see how it goes, I have a full day with the wife gone to see if the soreness subsides or increases. Sometime in the next few days or weeks (if this device works out) I will approach my wife about chastity. Or I may abandon the idea of chastity entirely; I just don't know right now.

Anyway, this is my "hello" post for the mods to review and add me as a member. If anyone has any reactions that's great. If not I can repost into a more appropriate forum later along with some other questions. Initial take on this site is great - I like the seriousness / reality of it as I'm really considering this. Thanks in advance.
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Hey 14+

Just one more suggestion: I don't know if this would be of interest to you, but there are several support groups for over-wanking. One of them is the Reddit NoFap group: http://reddit.com/r/nofap

Just a suggestion.
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