What about the problem that cages don't work?

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Alternatively if you are super serious about this, I suspect you could explore agents that suppress erections. It’s not for me, just saying I’ve seen it discussed on various forums.

One in particular was on a forum many years ago, the male had ED that responded to the pills. So he was never caged but could not achieve an erection without the pills, which his wife kept under tight control. Talk about orgasm control!
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sherulestherooster wrote: Thu Jul 21, 2022 10:13 am Alternatively if you are super serious about this, I suspect you could explore agents that suppress erections. It’s not for me, just saying I’ve seen it discussed on various forums.

One in particular was on a forum many years ago, the male had ED that responded to the pills. So he was never caged but could not achieve an erection without the pills, which his wife kept under tight control. Talk about orgasm control!
Hate to tell you but an erection is not necessary for an orgasm ! in fact even a penis (in a male) is not necessary for orgasm. If you check out “nulls” you’ll find they are (or were) males who for whatever reason have no testicles or penis BUT i’ve seen video of one masturbating like a woman and having an orgasm !! So the body will always find a way !!

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I can always spot a wannabe living his sex life online because they do not know what you know. They claim that they never can ejaculate. For gosh sake don't these guys watch chastity porn and see all the ways to orgasm when locked up? :D

I tell anyone who will listen, unless you have self control and can stay orgasm free even when unlocked, then chastity may work for you long term inside of the usual week or two and then put it away that most do.

The cage is symbolic as a wedding band is. It does not prevent orgasms. In fact, it may stimulate you more than if you were unlocked. What it Is aside from symbolic is a speed bump to give you pause as to what you are thinking of doing which is throwing away all the hard work and time you put into staying orgasm free for a lousy 10 seconds of pleasure.

Most chastity devices end up in a drawer. Tom Allen has been at this much longer than me but I too have seen guys come and go and few stick with chastity longer than a few weeks if that. You need to be abler to stay orgasm free unlocked for chastity to work when locked too. I am locked 24/7 as I have a high pressure handheld shower head and it cleans me while I am locked up. Never a medical issue in over 10 years.

So the problem is not that the cagers don't work. Any intelligent person can figure that out and knows the difference between porn and reality. The problem is that men go into this thinking that they will prevent them from coming rather than view the cage as symbolic and a speed bump on your way to doing somethign you may regret.
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Hubby can certainly cum with his cage on, but he describes it as an "uncomfortable ruin" and if anything ends up more frustrated at the end of it so really I don't see that as a negative from my point of view, although I don't encourage it.

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I'll counter your argument. I'm new at chastity and have been locked up for three days (this round). I was home alone and worked at cuming (with cage on) with a Hitachi wand and an NJoy wand and failed. I'm sure others could have happily cum and not told their SO.
I believe it's all emotional. You can always cut some cheap lock off of a metal cage on your dick...but at that point, why????
Isn't this really about trust in this tiny dollar store lock that we use to lock our cocks? We're not putting this $75, 10oz Master Lock on our dicks.
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I always struggled to cum while caged. Since swapping to a cage steel urethral insert permanently attached, we found I could cum with a vibe pretty quickly, but it feels kinda horrible in that there is no feeling at all, just the easing of preasure.
My wife uses a metal cash box to store her vibes in now.
The bit that surprises me is that she now goes to the trouble to make sure I can't play without her.
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Scott wrote: Wed Aug 31, 2022 1:48 pm ...You can always cut some cheap lock off of a metal cage on your dick...but at that point, why????
Isn't this really about trust in this tiny dollar store lock that we use to lock our cocks? We're not putting this $75, 10oz Master Lock on our dicks.
Not for those of us who have keyholders who are 'serious' about it. It's more about breaking the trust of the keyholder, and how she would react/respond to that. Sure, the lock can be cut off relatively easily, but the fact that you have done so will be glaringly obvious.
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